Why is my girlfriends family trying to hold me back?

I met my girl in college my senior year. When we first met, it was an instant hit. Eventhough we lived in two totally different states, we still kept in contact with one another. As time went on, I was taking planes out there to see and spend time with her. After a lil while, we had a lil girl and I moved out here to raise my her and be with my girl. I feel every child should grow up with their father and its up to the father to provide for his family; but that's another story. When I moved out here, she already had another son, which that is not a problem; me and him get along real good. Its been a year since I been in this state, and I'm realizing that this is NOT the state for me or where I want to raise my family. There aren't any college level jobs out here, no type of entertainment, no sports teams, you have to drive like 30 minutes to get a pizza, you gotta drive like 45 minutes to go to the gym etc; you get the picture.

I graduated with a business degree hoping I can find a job out here. Her brother and father have worked nice jobs for years, but every time I approach them they always say their job is not hiring or he dont know anybody in the company anymore. Why is my girls family trying to hold me back? - Photo posted in SnR - Sex and Relationship Forum | Sign in and leave a comment below! We thought of a neutral cite where we can go so we both can be within driving distance from our families; which is Atlanta. As I am writing this, I AM looking for jobs out there AND I have family out there that have been successful out there that can help me get on with a successful company. I went to her mom and told her all this, and she does not want her daughter to move with me; married or unmarried and she dont want me to take my daughter either. She do not have the last say so, but my girl listens to everything her mom says. Her mom is kind of like Player 1 playing Playstation and my girl is like Kratos in the video; she does whatever she wants her to do. Her dad does everything her mom tells her to do also; without a question asked. HE NEVER PUTS HIS FOOT DOWN!!!! My girl IS a type 1 diabetic and she NEEDS her insulin shots to live; which I understand. I would not take her out of this state and move her to Atlanta without a full time job with benefits to cover her and my daughter. But her mom is putting all kinds of stuff in her head so she wont move such as who will watch the baby when yall working? A DAYCARE YOU DUMB ***!!!!

I just want my daughter to be raised in a nice suburban city just like the one I was raised in. I dont want her to be raised in the country inside a POOR county. The county so poor, the highschool kids are still using books since 1998!!! WTF?? Why is my girls family trying to hold me back? - Photo posted in SnR - Sex and Relationship Forum | Sign in and leave a comment below! Anyways the only job I can find out here is a substitute teacher job, which is on call only. Why is her family holding us back and dont want us to move? Also not to mention, I been here a whole year and I have not met any friends out here my own age. There is nobody out here to chill with such as going to a sports bar or playing the game with. Most of the people out here who are young always move away when they become of age. So really, the only friends I got is her family. They have a couple people my age around here, but their deadbeats who do NOTHING besides stand by the road talkin bout BS all day. There is no recent college students who are young like me. Also my girl is stuck working these low paying *** jobs with no benefits.... to me shes also scared to make a big move to better things. I need to get out and have a drink and talk **** every now and then, but with WHO??? What to do?