4000 miles apart?? I need some motivation pls..?

Listen to music to motivate you, that's what I do. I have set songs that I listen to to remind me to stay strong for him, that distance cannot separate two hearts bound by love. 'Set Fire to the Third Bar' by Snow Patrol, 'One Day' by Opshop are a couple of my favorites.

What also helps is skyping him as often as you can...it'll be nice to see his face and hear his voice.

Just take a deep breath. Love can conquer any distance, you've just got to give it time.

Best Wishes

Edit:

Don't listen to anyone who suggest he's been cheating, not all men are total scum. I know my boyfriend wouldn't cheat no matter how long we go without seeing each other. Love > Sex, some men just aren't mature enough to realize that. Why throw away the love of your life for one night of fun...

I'm so sorry to hear that it would be so hard! I have no idea what I would do but good luck too u girl I'll be praying for you!!!

Taking a wild guess 1 or both of u are either in school or the military or the job either of u have takes time away from the other. Seems that u have done a good job so far have u tried talking to ur husband about how u feel. Have u tried making new friends where ur at sure there are some nice church groups around ur area for married people. U both love each other otherwise u wouldn't be together this long. Ur very lucky to have him he is very lucky to have u.

You haven't been together for 2 years and he hasn't cheated? Hmmm.