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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

Girls Please help me :( I dunno what she has in her mind :( ?

ok here is a girl whom i saw her in college and as soon as i saw her i just went and said "this black dress suits you" in a railway station ..she never knew who I am at that time.. I was a total stranger to her .. later On her Birthday I gave her a greeting card to wish her on her B'day ..she returned it back with a note that "thanks for wishing".. after that we had some eye contacts for few months later i gave her a friend request in FB and we were chatting little while and then got her number after 2 years from our first meet .. so its like this we wont talk that much but she knews it very well that i am crazy about her

Again a months before her birthday came and i was the first one to wish her .. and that day evening i just traveled 30kms just to see her and give a present for her birthday . i gave an greeting card where all her fb pics put together and some wishes here and ther and a bit costly wallet ..( one day she told that she missed her wallet somewhere while travelling..so i thought that would be good gift) and then that day we had dinner together in a hotel .. now the problem is this after that meeting she suddenly stopped to text me she sstarted to ignore me she never text even if i text her .. a recently i said this to her , i was talking with her so rudely and she asked my whether I am angry on her ? i said " yeah am damn angry on you you should either tell me that you are busy or you are not in a position to text why do you simply dont reply to the text?" she replied "sorry"..and on the same day when i told this... after 20 exchanges ..she abruptly stopped the conversation and didnt text back anything :( .. now my problem is i really want to know why she is doing like this ?? ! she wants my attention towards her ? 2.she really dont like me after seeing me that night?? or its something else ??? pls help me i am literally crying

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  • 9 years ago

    Some girls are like this and they seem greatly affected by certain things that happen. One minute they're nice and the next, they are cold and distant. Ask them why and all you'll get is a "sorry". I discovered that they don't even know themselves why they do it. I rather suspect it might be something to do with hormones or perhaps something that happened to them a long time ago which freaks them out. I think if you wait and be patient she may well snap out of it. The only problem is that any relationship you may have with her will be dotted with these huge mood swings.

    Source(s): I have psycholgy qualifications and also experience with moody girls.
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    She could have had a little crush on you. And the best scenario in a girls mind at times is to avoid their crush. give her a few days. then text her that you're sorry that you blew up on her. and then pick things back up.

  • 9 years ago

    Kind of creepy...

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