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How do I tell my best friend that I don't want to move out with her?
My boyfriend, best friend and I are in our early 20s and have been talking about the idea of being roommates for about a year. I love my bestie to death, but there have been too many warning signs of this being a bad idea:
- She got into a car accident (months ago) loosing her car, doesn't seem to be looking for a new one.
- I cart her to work multiple times a week because of this (over an hour away).
- Said rooming is a great idea because "if you're ever behind on rent, your roommates can always back you up!"
- Already owes me money I know ill never see again.
- Refuses to learn how to cook for herself
- Spends money going out every other night
- Missed payments on her loan, therefore has bad credit
- Recently stated after using the atm that her "<1.5k balance wasn't too bad"
She has an offer to move in with her inseparable (boy)friend for much cheaper, but won't because they're not in a relationship yet. I planned to view an apartment with my boyfriend tomorrow, so I need to address this right away. How should I go about telling/convincing/"intervention" her that she's not ready without ruining our friendship?
Thanks!
1 Answer
- 9 years ago
Don't live with them. It's a trap. (financially speaking) and You are already trapped. (socially speaking) so probably you will spend the rest of your life helping her financially. I suggest to keep a distance bet. you and her.