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what makes rape such a scarring experience?
i mean my friend was raped three years ago (she's 22 now) and she's still VERY messed up..she has a counselor but she never got over it
9 Answers
- HaleyLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
1.loss of power
2.invasion privacy
3.own physical weakness against bigger force
4.loss of trust in world and everybody (nothing is safe)
5.not understanding that that demon who did that to her intended to leave her without joy and being fearfull for the rest of her life: She can and eventually she will fight him every day by laughing life in the face and to make sure she enjoys every breath she takes despite the way she feels inside.
- 9 years ago
rape is a terrifying experience.
my best friend was sexually abused and as a result is pregnant. its changed her life.
she has to go to a mental insitution after she gives birth because it has messed her up psychologically. she is terrified to go outside and even to come to school because shes so scared tht it might happen again. shes terrified of all men, and cant handle being in an enclosed space because if her experience. rape isnt something u ever get over. u just dont. it stays in ur head every minute of every day. and all u remember is the pain, the experience, and the mental suffering tht this one person caused u.
i hoope this helps u understand just how much these women suffer everyday of their lives
- Cynthia TorresLv 49 years ago
I dont think you could get over it either if it happened to you. Its not like she fell off a bike, its a man violating her in such a sick way where she had no control, being used like an animal not a human. This will be with her forever
- Jadzia DaxLv 79 years ago
For a short period of time she had absolutely no control over her own life. She is being forced to do things with someone she has no relationship with at all and is very traumatizing.
Tell her to look into group counseling as this may have a bad affect on future relationships.
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- ?Lv 79 years ago
Think about it.
A person takes you, by force, and has sex with you. It's a violation. It's violent. Someone is sticking a part of their body into you, against your will.
If you cannot understand sexual abuse or rape, I suggest you volunteer at a rape crisis center, talk to victims, and then...maybe...you'll understand.
- 9 years ago
A complete stranger walks up behind you and shoves his dìck up your asshøle
I think that could possibly lead to a scarring experience.
Just sayin'
Source(s): LIFE - persingerLv 45 years ago
Our intamacy is deepest to us, so whilst somebody gets rid of your skill from controlling the main intamate feeling we've, you experience powerless. additionally rape is usualy achieved with tension, so that's frightening.
- LillyLv 59 years ago
because someone hurts you and violently forces you to have sex with them..there is nothing not disturbing about it! i would like to see you get over something like that!