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Why is it whenever a guy talks about sex or taking my virgnity i get...?

Really nervous. I mean ok i'm still a Virgin right 17 years old never had any sexual experience with a guy before i mean the closest i've been to ever doing anything sexual was kissing a guy. I just get really nervous and anxious when ever a guy brings it up and it sorta scares me a little bit to. Is this normal or not?

PS i've never had a real hang out, meet your parents, go on dates with him type of boyfriend before, so could this also add to my anxiety or not?

Update:

And also i'm Catholic my mom and dad's side were both Catholic and well no body on either side talks about sex that often i mean it's taboo for me or my mom to mention it, so is it possible that is also the reason why i'm not comfortable with talking about sex?

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Don't worry hun, it's normal.

    I'm Catholic too and although I am a "liberal" Catholic, I get really nervous when a guy says stuff like that. Likewise, I have also never had any sort of sexual encounter with a guy yet.

    it just shows that you're not ready yet, and that's ok! I'm in the same boat :)

  • 9 years ago

    if you're nervous then your body is telling you that your not ready. you're still young. wait for the right person and make sure you wont lose your virginity because you were pressured to do it. only have sex if your comfortable and your body is telling you that you are ready. Just because you're 17 doesn't mean you have to lose your virginity because everyone else is doing it. be different and wait till your comfortable. there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. it just shows how much you respect yourself and your body. don't be like other young girls out there losing there virginity because they think its "cool" or cause its "IN" or because all her friend have lost it. WAIT and do it with the right person.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Yeah that's very mature for a girl like you. Some girls get their heads off and knock their virginity out like they can get a vagina anytime! Some people have higher / lower hormones, but you are mature.

    Guys are going to be guys.They like sex because they want to look cool. Some just want to act masculine, but when you get pregnant.... they leave you, that's how it is. Unless you have a bond with this guy, and you guys are engaged or somewhat like that.

  • Lulu
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    You get nervous because the boy is talking about taking you physically and emotionally into a very adult area of life. You don't owe it to a boy to relieve him. HOld on to your virginity and you'll be glad you did.

    In the meantime, educate yourself about sex and pregnancy so you'll understand it better.

    You are a normal, decent girl, and I applaud you!

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  • 9 years ago

    Stay a virgin until you are married. You will be glad you waited

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It's normal.

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