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Im never bored but often lonely...?

My life is pretty awesome, I have my own house, 2 jobs, I bike everyday, I go to concerts, I'm always busy. I have been single for 2 years. I have lost 20 pounds, been doing karate, Why can't I find a companion? Guys will wanna hook up with me, so I'm do-able, but nobody ever wants to just hang out without sex. I have tickets for concerts, restaurants, jet boat, sky wheel, 3D movies, and no date. Ever. Seems that the people who I become friends with don't work as hard as I do and I end up paying for everything (and I only make 12 dollars an hour so it's not like I'm rich) so I have decided that they aren't worth spending my cool stuff with. I tried POF and all I get are booty calls. I'm so frign lonely what do I do??? And I go to the same places everyday cuz of my work and errands routines so how to meet new people? I'm really too busy to take on new activities.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
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    Right now, you are understanding what you want in a partner. You can appreciate how lucky you are already and that you are happy but you just feel like something is missing. That's really good, you are knowing yourself.

    I say, constantly be on the look out, but secretly - don't be obvious. Look for potential in everyone you meet.

    First of all, don't sleep with anyone - what if your soul mate was about to tap you on the shoulder but you'd already started walking off with someone else? Don't sleep with anyone anymore until you've been on at least 5 dates and you really like them and you KNOW that they really like you too. The fact that you are feeling lonely is emphasised because you've been let down so many times, so don't set yourself up for let downs.

    I think you should also order a book on how to meet your soulmate. Look online for the best rated ones and read them, they will be good and make you feel better, and will help you to find what you're looking for.

  • 9 years ago

    Well for one I say congrats for realizing that they are not worth your time lolz (just wanted to say that) and to meet new people you can try something like facebook or something like that sure you will meet a lot of jerks but at the same time you will. Meet nice guys to and well lonely wise just chill its not all bad and if u really want a friend then hi lolz I'm always up for new friends lolz

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    If your looking for friends to spend time with and expeiriences with try www.friendmatch.us, a site for friend making for people who are looking for friends.

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