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Am I turning into a bad kid?

I'm 14. I've smoked, I drink, i've had sex one time. My parents told me not to date this guy, & I date him for 3 months. I talk to pot heads & disobey my parents all the time. This year, I've turned bad...I used to be a good kid. I don't really want to change....but, is everything that I'm doing normal?? & I want to move out. & I want to party! Is all this normal for a 14 year old? My parents already think I'm on the "wrong path"...does anyone have any advice?

-CaliforniaBabe<3

Update:

Will someone please email me? I need to talk to someone about all this,

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Focus on school!!!! All the fun that you are having now will be nothing compare to college. Start thinking about your future, even if its too early. Choose the right people to hang out with, definitely not potheads and those people who disobey their parents. I see that you still want to change deep inside yourself because you ask this question.

    Of course you want to party, have fun, and just dont care about anything in this world. But once you start thinking about what will happen in your future, you will start being serious. The best way to start noticing things like that is to get a part time job. Work as a baby sitter, car wash, and any other things you can find. Then you will understand the value of money, and how hard it is to earn money without higher education such a college degree.

    Its very easy for young teenagers to fall into the wrong path, listen to your parent, they want you to be the best person and they will do anything in their power to raise you to be that person. If you need some motivation, start watching TV shows like teen moms, and high school drop outs. Pull yourself out before its too late to change back. Stop smoking, stop drinking. You are too young to be damaging yourself like that, and it cost a lot of money to keep doing what you are doing now. Medical expense, drug money, and liquor money are easily built up. And sex is not only illegal for your age, but you can also get diseases or get pregnant. Sometimes you just can't change the outcome of some horrible events, and it is better to prevent them than learning to live with the consequence for the rest of your life (disease/early pregnancy).

    Listen to your parent, you know what it was like to be a good kid, start being that good kid again. Do not tempted by all these things around you, plan your life ahead, not just living blindly in the present.

  • 9 years ago

    we all get to around that age and start becoming interested in being rebelious and trying out things like that. some kids do end up going down that path, 2 years ago i was having the same problems. Though if you want to go back to being the way you were before, changing who you hang out with is a step toward that even though it's hard.

    Source(s): me
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    i will beat that, I bear in recommendations as quickly as I grew to become 15 (i stay interior the U. S. sixteen isn't that substantial of deal) and all my acquaintances forgot it become my birthday, i did no longer say something as i did no longer prefer to look rude. Then as quickly as I grew to become 17 this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days i become the only individual who out of all my acquaintances to no longer get making use of instructions, it makes you sense ignored yet on the tip of the day i will learn yet over lower back won't I? comparable with you, be thankful for what you have, only element is i do no longer think of they might desire to have have been given all that stuff on your brother and little for you, my family contributors have consistently saved it the comparable for anybody each 3 hundred and sixty 5 days aside from 18th and twenty first. you will desire to no longer splash that plenty funds once you're actually not overly wealthy, right this moment's worldwide it particularly is unclear of the destiny.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    no this is NOT normal. you need to relax yourself you are only 14 and this is how you act? I'm sorry but you should be ashamed. I'm 18 and never touched drugs in my life or alcohol. you need to have some self respect

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Personally i would consider you a "bad kid" but compared to some others…you are completely innocent.

    You can email me :)

    xxletsmakeascenexx@ymail.com

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