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Do I keep my BFF or kick him to the curb?
Ever since I told my BFF that is madly in love with me that I wanted to be just friends he flipped out and went into a mental breakdown. He said he was searching mental asylums because he was THAT hurt and depressed. I feel aweful and I told him I can't fake romantic feelings that arent there.
I met with him for the first time today and it was so depressing. I could feel this negative energy the entire time. We drove separately and I could see him driving away like a maniac. Then he complains later that I didnt spend "enough" time with him. Is this dude crazy? Should I let his behavior determine our friendship? HELP!!! Thanks!!
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3 Answers
- Anonymous9 years ago
Don't blame yourself, I think he has some personal issues he needs to work on you did the right thing by telling him the truth if he can't be mature enough to understand that then there's nothing you can do to help him. You have put in the effort to maintain a friendship by meeting with him, he's using the asylum and drepression and an ivitiation to the pitty party he oh so deires but don't fall for it. He'll have to either accept that you two can only be friends or move on and leave you alone because his mental unstableness is not good for you. if you do feel he becomes suicidal and/or other serious threats tell someone!!! i.e. parents/ friends/ police etc.
- 9 years ago
He sounds like a brat that thinks other people are going to bend to suit his needs.
I took a girl on 4 dates one time that I paid for, I told her she was beautiful, bought her flowers and told her I wanted to spend a lot of time with her. When I asked her to be my girlfriend she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship. My thoughts were wha the **** kind of friends make out and go on dates?
Was I mad? Yes. Did I make her feel guilty? No.
Your friend is being over dramatic, let him figure himself out. Don't fall into his petty trap
- 9 years ago
Ask yourself this question... Where would you like to be in 5 years? Your ex boyfriend's attitude can and probably will hold you back if you fall for his childish behavior.
Love wil find you down the road... And TRUST ME.. You'll know the very moment you lay your eyes on him..
Source(s): been there
