Beauty Queen

I'm a recent Vegan for dietary purposes and I'm at an age where I would like to find someone who shares my lifestyle. I would find it difficult to date someone that isnt because of our date options for food and if it got serious I don't know if I could live with someone that eats completely different.

I don't like to throw my beliefs on others so turning a carniovre into vegan is not my goal. How do I date someone with this lifestyle? HELP!!

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i definately find men cute but i don't find them sexy or super attractive. i cannot find them attractive beyond their looks. some might be funny and smart which are great qualities but i dont feel like i want or need them for any sort of relationship. what is wrong with me!!!!

Ever since I told my BFF that is madly in love with me that I wanted to be just friends he flipped out and went into a mental breakdown. He said he was searching mental asylums because he was THAT hurt and depressed. I feel aweful and I told him I can't fake romantic feelings that arent there.

I met with him for the first time today and it was so depressing. I could feel this negative energy the entire time. We drove separately and I could see him driving away like a maniac. Then he complains later that I didnt spend "enough" time with him. Is this dude crazy? Should I let his behavior determine our friendship? HELP!!! Thanks!!

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I have switched to a vegan diet for the past week and my stomach feels very bloated and I feel a bit achy. I have good energy from my food but I'm wondering if it's because my body is getting rid of the toxins or caffine withdrawl? If you have experienced this or know what it is please let me know. Thanks!!

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I had a date a week ago and when I told him he gushed his heart out practically begging me to be his girlfriend but I told him I didn't feel that way. I felt bad but I told him this would happen. Things got weird. He was very depressed and even mentioned he searched mental asylums online because he was so hurt. That's when I got freaked out and validated my choice. So within two days after this he suddenly meets up with this girl from the internet and he mentions they were watching torture porn together and that the next day he was going to pick her up in the morning to "watch a movie" at his house.

I have no romantic feelings but I think what he did was disrespectful? Why would he act out in such strange behavior? Help!!! Thanks!!

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Confused???

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Hopeful

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