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heartbreak over finals?

so i am a college freshman and i've been going out with somebody for the entire year, but it turns out he has dropped me in favor of a 38 year old fashion designer -- not even somebody our age but an established older woman who i've heard parades him around like a trophy. i have no idea what to do because i don't have anyone to support me, as our friends were his friends.

to top this off, it's finals week. i feel so despondent all i want to do is drink a bottle of wine and go to bed, and this is of course not possible. i need to be on my game but all i feel is overwhelming depression. my family is all over the world and is not really sympathetic. suggestions?

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    ebomania or whatever is an idiot. just felt like saying that :)

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Okay. First thing's first.

    Yours studies are the first priority right now. What you can do is go through your finals without any hesitation and thoughts of that friend of yours. I know this may be hard or even impossible. But try. Really. If you want anything, you should be outstanding in your studies. No kidding. And by studies, I mean according to your profession or course. Even if you're just taking up a course that no one really takes note of. You should be excellent in a particular field.

    If you say your parents is all over the world, then you must be coming from a great family(You may correct me if I'm wrong. But that's how I think it is.). You're talking about drinking while you're just a college freshman. So definitely you must be something. Be confident. You can do better. At any cost, it's best to avoid alcohol.

    If this guy is someone that you really care so much, then you should stand even more upright. Show him what you've got. Show him that you're better. You don't have to, don't need to be depressed.

    But still, I would like to advice you. When it comes to relationships, widen your eyes a bit. Don't put yourself in situations that won't benefit you. What I'm trying to say is, don't put yourself in danger. I mean, guys will always be guys. Of course, it also depends on your friend's character. But if he's going out with people like that, you gotta be very careful.

    If you want someone to talk to, you can always find friends. If you don't want to talk to people that already knows him, you can always find old friends. Those who were with you during your school days. If you really can't find any, I'm all ears. =)

    So that's it. I hoped I've helped you.

  • 9 years ago

    OK first of all you need to get a good night's sleep to perform well on the finals. also, eat ice cream. or chocolate. i've heard it helps ;)

    also he wasn't worth your time, so just chill, you'll find a better guy in time :)

    answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApALs...

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    suicide

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