Angelacia baybeeeeee

Have every food you eat be

1. a little freezer-burnt

2. a little off/past its sell by date

he started off really keen, saying he wanted to catch up etc, then as soon as i was ok with seeing him again and we settled on a date he texts me day of saying he can't make it, 'something's come up'. since i am moving far away at the end of the month that is pretty much leaving it. is this common when you arrange to meet an ex? i have had other exes get in touch in the past but never responded until now.

i just got back from college and these are my two 'best friends'. we were all excited for a reunion when i was away, but i have seen them once in 2 weeks, and one of them left early to meet someone else who lives in our town -- i've been away for 6 months, can't you wait 20 minutes before seeing someone you see every week?

then last night i got in touch with them individually to organize something and they ended up going out together instead and hung up when i tried to call. one of them just texted me in the morning like 'sorry don't be mad' -- but i am hurt and pissed off! they might just be jealous but these are supposed to be my two best friends.

oh, and i also found out one of them slept with my ex and didn't tell me about it.

how can i show them they can't treat me like that?!! i have enough going on in my life that i'm more annoyed, but still emotional.

i just got back from college and these are my two 'best friends'. we were all excited for a reunion when i was away, but i have seen them once in 2 weeks, and one of them left early to meet someone else who lives in our town -- i've been away for 6 months, can't you wait 20 minutes before seeing someone you see every week?

then last night i got in touch with them individually to organize something and they ended up going out together instead and hung up when i tried to call. one of them just texted me in the morning like 'sorry don't be mad' -- but i am hurt and pissed off! they might just be jealous but these are supposed to be my two best friends.

oh, and i also found out one of them slept with my ex and didn't tell me about it.

how can i show them they can't treat me like that?!! i have enough going on in my life that i'm more annoyed, but still emotional.

my friend is subletting an apartment and i helped the renter move her stuff in. we got to talking and she's sweet, she just moved and doesn't know anyone. the problem is she's a 25 year old stripper and kind of hard partier and we really have nothing in common nor would my friends with her! but i feel bad because she keeps getting in touch wanting to do something and i don't want to leave her alone - i know how it feels because i just moved 8 months ago.

but i don't want to be her friend myself. and i don't know anyone else like her. lol

so i am a college freshman and i've been going out with somebody for the entire year, but it turns out he has dropped me in favor of a 38 year old fashion designer -- not even somebody our age but an established older woman who i've heard parades him around like a trophy. i have no idea what to do because i don't have anyone to support me, as our friends were his friends.

to top this off, it's finals week. i feel so despondent all i want to do is drink a bottle of wine and go to bed, and this is of course not possible. i need to be on my game but all i feel is overwhelming depression. my family is all over the world and is not really sympathetic. suggestions?

so i am a college freshman and i've been going out with somebody for the entire year, but it turns out he has dropped me in favor of a 38 year old fashion designer -- not even somebody our age but an established older woman who i've heard parades him around like a trophy. i have no idea what to do because i don't have anyone to support me, as our friends were his friends.

to top this off, it's finals week. i feel so despondent all i want to do is drink a bottle of wine and go to bed, and this is of course not possible. i need to be on my game but all i feel is overwhelming depression. my family is all over the world and is not really sympathetic. suggestions?

so i was busy the past three times he wanted to hang out and then i congratulated him on something he won and he was like oh you didn't notice on the day but thanks anyway... and i want to see him and am too scared to ask if he wants to hang out! how to do this naturally!

I don't understand

I have tried to reach out and all the friends I made first semester of college don't want to talk to me anymore

They actually ignore my texts

I was really social and made friends with people from lots of groups but it seems like I have been edged out of all of them..and now no one has gotten in touch with me for three days and they have ignored any texts I have sent.

I don't see why..my parents are taking me for a week in Spain to 'get away' but I don't see that anything will be better when I return.

I haven't done anything..why is no one interested anymore?? sorry if there's not a lot of information, but there has been nothing to provoke this. I used to always have people to go out with and now I have none.

I don't understand

I have tried to reach out and all the friends I made first semester of college don't want to talk to me anymore

They actually ignore my texts

I was really social and made friends with people from lots of groups but it seems like I have been edged out of all of them..and now no one has gotten in touch with me for three days and they have ignored any texts I have sent.

I don't see why..my parents are taking me for a week in Spain to 'get away' but I don't see that anything will be better when I return.

I haven't done anything..why is no one interested anymore?? sorry if there's not a lot of information, but there has been nothing to provoke this. I used to always have people to go out with and now I have none.

people think i'm really rude, but it's just that i am PAINFULLY shy. like it's hard for me to say hi to someone i know in the street, so i tend to blank them and look away. or if i see someone i know, i will run away and try to make sure they didn't see me. it's hard because i want to make friends and i am pretty, smart, dress well etc but i am really so socially anxious that all those things combined make people think that i'm 'too good' and most people really dislike me. like, i will hurry past and people will roll their eyes. how can i change this??

people think i'm really rude, but it's just that i am PAINFULLY shy. like it's hard for me to say hi to someone i know in the street, so i tend to blank them and look away. or if i see someone i know, i will run away and try to make sure they didn't see me. it's hard because i want to make friends and i am pretty, smart, dress well etc but i am really so socially anxious that all those things combined make people think that i'm 'too good' and most people really dislike me. like, i will hurry past and people will roll their eyes. how can i change this??

I could either take Spanish, which I already speak, and get a guaranteed A

Or I could take French and really have to work hard, possibly taking time away from my other classes .. although I do want to learn

should I get the A and learn in my own time, or take advantage of this as an opportunity to learn a new language?

Thanks!

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would you still go?

I go to university and my finance class is strictly no absence, but I just missed class for the stupidest reason -- my alarm clock didn't turn on. I'm freaking out and don't know what to say to the professor because I need to get an A!

we don't hang out outside the room - at all - but whenever we're in the room together she;s just really irritating. she's a math major and she constantly makes references to others being stupid, inferior, etc. which is really annoying, because i'm an english-ir major.

she just constantly makes annoying comments like 'shameful!' or 'you always make REALLY good decisions' or 'that's embarrassing for you'..when it doesn't even make sense..like i'll say, the party was good but the bouncer couldn't find my name until i spelled it (innocuous) and she'll reply with 'omg that's SO embarrassing for you. i would just not go to parties if i were you.'

it doesn't even make sense because she's social but NEVER goes out, and her attitude is p*ssing me off!! more so because it seems like envy more than anything - she always makes comments about what i'm wearing (i wear nice clothes), my hair if i get it done, etc - just really rude.

idk how to deal with it, because i'm sick of rolling my eyes internally and giving her fake smiles! and i don't want to all-out say 'shut the f up!'

in high school i went to a small arts school and people kind of took care of me bc i'm a very 'sensitive flower' type. shy, prone to anxiety, not good at being assertive, sweet but skittish etc. i started at the beginning of the year at a huge college in a completely new place and am really having difficulties making friends and getting life together. suggestions?

everyone who is kind of 'in your face' leadership etc has been not for me, i.e. 'let's make gingerbread houses with my school club!'

the theme is wonderland and it is in aid of muscular dystrophy. i know how most people dress at these events in thousand+ dollar dresses, but I don't want to spend that much!! any suggestions on appropriate outfits that are still affordable?

I started seeing this guy and whenever we schedule dates he plans them 5 mins away from his house. we live about half an hour away from each other so basically he continually asks me to travel half an hour. last time i told him i couldn't travel that far so we didn't see each other. now he's just asked me to travel up his way again!! i told him 'it will take me a long time to get up there, not sure if i can' and he is not taking the hint. bad manners?