none of my friends are speaking to me?

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I don't understand
I have tried to reach out and all the friends I made first semester of college don't want to talk to me anymore
They actually ignore my texts
I was really social and made friends with people from lots of groups but it seems like I have been edged out of all of them..and now no one has gotten in touch with me for three days and they have ignored any texts I have sent.
I don't see why..my parents are taking me for a week in Spain to 'get away' but I don't see that anything will be better when I return.

I haven't done anything..why is no one interested anymore?? sorry if there's not a lot of information, but there has been nothing to provoke this. I used to always have people to go out with and now I have none.

magikal01 · Accepted Answer

Lots? And seriously All stopped at the same time?  It's only been three days.  If you're texting people and they're not getting back to you, maybe you're texting too much?  Maybe your coming across as needy.  Again it's been 3 days!  Remove yourself from the situation and look at it honesty, what actually happened?  What parts did you have in it?  Everybody has an issue with just one- you?  The numbers don't add up.

Go to Spain, have a good time and when you get back act as if nothing has happened.  But you might want to keep your eyes open just in case something isn't going on through the grapevine.  And be social, yes- but don't go overboard, nobody likes the person who wants to be the center of attention.   good luck

Louis · Answer

Wow a whole 3 days, that's soooo long!!!

Seriously get real. If you think that a few people not texting you means no one is speaking to you then you need to go outside and speak to them in person. Go to their houses and ask if they wanna come out with you or something.

glitchman2 · Answer

People are busy they have things to do.  Nothing you did just life.  You might not see each other every day like high school.  Live your life you don't need to cling on to them.  Live your life and they will live theirs.  If you all come together every so often even better!

Anonymous · Answer

Either someone told lies about you,said you were talking behind your friends back or maybe someone in the group is jealous and told the rest of the people not to talk to you.? Just think.(:

Anonymous · Answer

You are being an attention harlot, give it a rest.  When I was a kid I remember when we got a color TV.  There were only three channels and nothing to watch.

Anonymous · Answer

REDUCE the amount of texting and stop worrying. People get busy. give it time.

Little Miss Wise · Answer

if youre pretty: THEIR JEALLOUS
if your not: THEIR NOT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS find new ones
if you know your prettyand brag about it: THATS WHY

JST LOOK AT YOUR PERSONALITY AND PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SHOES TO SEE WHAT THEY DONT LIKE ABOUT YOU :) AND CHANGE for theM :)

but if for NO REASON... their not your freinds... a true friend wouldn't do that... :)

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