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Angelacia baybeeeeee
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Angelacia baybeeeeee asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

how can i show my bad friends!!?

i just got back from college and these are my two 'best friends'. we were all excited for a reunion when i was away, but i have seen them once in 2 weeks, and one of them left early to meet someone else who lives in our town -- i've been away for 6 months, can't you wait 20 minutes before seeing someone you see every week?

then last night i got in touch with them individually to organize something and they ended up going out together instead and hung up when i tried to call. one of them just texted me in the morning like 'sorry don't be mad' -- but i am hurt and pissed off! they might just be jealous but these are supposed to be my two best friends.

oh, and i also found out one of them slept with my ex and didn't tell me about it.

how can i show them they can't treat me like that?!! i have enough going on in my life that i'm more annoyed, but still emotional.

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  • ?
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Reverse Psychology.

    Do the same to them; but make sure it happens, otherwise it'll seem to them that they've won and made you look stupid. Get some plans and then go 'you know what, I have WAY better things to do with my time than to waste it trying to be nice to old biiiiieeeeetchy friends.' You might feel like you've ended the friendship, but either they will try to contact you or they won't after you do it. If you don't do it then there will be loose ends and you will feel like crap and they will have succeeded and laugh about it for ages. If you don't do above ^ Go somewhere you know they'll be with some friends and have a great time and show them what they're missing.

    Source(s): Sorry about all my ANDs.
  • MM
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    They're not jealous. They aren't your friends anymore. This happens often when people are away at college, they have moved on. So I think you need to go find some new friends and ignore them.

    Hope I helped.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    They are obviosly not your friends. Just face it your all alone.

    Source(s): Someone elses personal experience
  • ?
    9 years ago

    Youve been gone and they moved on I've been through it find new friends is best

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