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Married but no ring? Is it rite?

Well my husband and I have been married for 2 yrs but we have been living in different countries...we just try so hard to make things work cuz we love each other so much.

Yesterday he sent me a video and I noticed he wasnt wearing his ring...its not like him but he said he took it off for a few minutes to do something on his car..i really dont believe this and I got so mad and depressed & told him to stop calling me and he said ok..he hasnt called me since yesterday..

Did I over react or was I rite be mad?

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  • Sue C
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    Honey, IF this was the first time you've seen him not wearing his ring, it's very possible he WAS telling you the truth! IF he was working on his car, it IS very "close quarters" under a hood, he just could have gotten it caught on something. Just watch the next time he sends pictures & see if he's wearing his ring. I DO know of guys who take their rings off doing certain things. Unless you have reason to believe otherwise, I would trust him. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt this time...best to you, honey...:)

  • Rick
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    I love your avatar name. It excites my imagination...

    When guys work on cars the smart ones remove their rings. If there hands were to get caught on any moving parts they could wind up without a hand or fingers. This doesn't mean he isn't still madly in love with you. It means he's doing what should be done when a person is working on a car.

    Call him back and see if he's wearing it. Then call him back a few days later and see if he had it on. If you find it's become a pattern, you have reason for concern.

  • 9 years ago

    U over reacted.

    My husband almost burned his finger off with electricity while working on a car, and he has not worn his ring since!

    U need to say "sorry".

    Long distance relationships are VERY difficult to start with and seldom last.

    U R not making this relationship easy for him.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Crazy, lonesome brain took over on you there. Do apologize.

    I have been married 15 years and don't wear a ring.....and I am not up to no good.

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  • Eliot
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    I don't wear ring. But my wife too. It doesn't matter. Rings aren't assurance for fidelity or not.

  • 9 years ago

    you need to live in one country and one house. bottomline. two years is too long.

  • 9 years ago

    ya you overreacted.

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