Can a marriage survive without trust?

No marriage can survive without trust. See a divorce lawyer right away. You will feel an immense sense of relief as soon as you have done so.

No Trust In Marriage

Ah yes, dear. Welcome to the Virtual world. They said it would be great! The dear Internet. Man's NEW best friend. Sex at their fingertips. No messes, no way to say they were cheating, can't say they ever touched another woman, and no proof they committed adultry---yet--- the divorce courts will have to make some new cases and update the laws because this thing is here to stay. You are not alone. The Internet cyber sex scene has exploded. And some people do want to see what its all about, and explore it. And some have explored it very , very well. If he loves you, really, and YOU know if he does or not, then try to ease up a bit. Because its there, and many will succomb to it if anything, just out of sheer curiosity. I would not end a marriage over it just yet. marriages are very important, and need to be coddled, loved, and protected from the "outsiders" or the evil Sex Cyber land. Help your husband see he may lose this marriage if he ever does this again. You throw the word "trust" out there like a whip. Its HURT you are afraid of. You dont want to ever discover something like this again, because it HURT like hell. That is what he needs to understand. You don't want to HURT ever again. And finding phone numbers written down to a prostitute, that had to hurt.

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Start inside, then work your way outside on the leash. Let him sniff around and call his name when he seems focused on something else. Treat and praise if he looks at you, take him inside if he doesn't. Keep doing this ( for weeks/months - real training takes time) and work your way off leash. Eventually your dog will stop what he's doing an focus on you when you want him to.

The problem that most people have with teaching a recall (come) is that they only try to do it when the dog is doing something far more fun than performing the command. You have to teach the dog that coming to you when you call is the very most fun thing he could do. Go outside with a friend and a big bag of treats split between you. Go about 10 feet from eachother, then take turns saying the word "come" once and making a HUGE deal of praising him with each step he takes towards you, then treat and praise even more when he gets there. As he gets better, work your way further apart. When he's mastered that, include other distractions like other dogs or noisy toys. Keep making a HUGE deal of praising him when he does it right, and he will learn a flawless recall.

she obviously does these things because that is the only way she knows to keep tabs on you and what you are doing. You said yourself that you have felt taht she has never trusted you. so this is not a small issue. it has been going on for the longest time. ok, so she oes not trust you, possibly meaning that she belives that humans including you can be manipulated and fall into temptatino of various sorts, lke drugs, and sex, etc. she is ofcourse correct. human are suscepile to all kinds of egative things. and part of the solution is to make the negatives clearly to be seen as negatives instead of positives. another part of the solution is to unerstand how to get out of an adictio /obsession/fixation on any one or a number of these temptations. to understand it and apply it to one's life. She has to understand that what she is doing is a problem also. you have tokld her so. ok. you tell her once maybe twice. then nxt you follow throuh with being who you are, and she has to adapt to it. and if se doesnot ok, she does not, and if it means separarting ok. now if you wat to what you can do is to pepare yourself to answer her back pronto, becaue she has lgitemate reasons for texting you. so be pepared t answer her every 15 mnutesor so if need be. pronto. then these texts will eventually slow down and become much less frequent. depending on how fast you repnd to them. you have to text her back fast so tahat she uderstand that yourhands are free, and you are able to text her back. thus easing her mind. there is much more that can be done. forexample she has to learn to live without accusing you always. that is not a life. you know that. anyhow. hre is th solution to being fixatyed on pon if you are interested. Alright, so I want to tell you that its helpful for you to recognize when you come across potentially phenomenal information, so you don't overlook empowering knowledge. You are lucky to get this info. Many people are hurting silently, so mention the true Nature of the Problem (below) & the Website (Mentioned after my answer, includes numerous Youtube videos to be watched in order). I used to be intensely into watching porn, and I overcame it. If I can, anyone can overcome it. Nature of Problem: Manipulation of the mind through trickery: Various sexual presentations expose the viewer to numerous impactful mind altering manipulations. The viewer having little to no chance to defend themselves is virtually powerless against these intrusions. The viewer is delivered a powerful mental high, which is experienced as a powerful sexual high. The book a) Reveals the Manipulations, b) Explaining How the Mind Works, 3) Details How to Nullify the Tricks & Free the Mind from these cunning deceptions.

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Lifes all about the experience so move on. Pay your support and re-invent yourself. Life is too short. You can get a roomate anytime to help with the bills. Pack your stuff and move out while shes gone and then for the hell of it get a restraining order. Been there and done that. Im happy now and dating /variety all the time.

Couples therapy. You REALLY need it. A relationship cannot thrive without trust, and there is no way for you to get that if she won't even aknowledge the problem. So bring in a trained thrid party who can drag it out into the open.

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ok...1: no trust is no relationship is no marriage....2: my grandma always said "guilty dog barks first" which has been proven to me over and over again in the past. seems like you keep beating your head into the ceiling...maybe you should treat her the same way.sometimes people just dont get what they are doing until the get a dose of their own medicine so to speak...if that doesnt work, then i would say maybe it uis time to move on. not only is it hurting you, but i gurantee you, that 9 yr old knows what is going on..and he is suffering for it. good luck

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