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Insecure about mostly everything especially relationships.help?
Insecure please help. relationship advice?
always doubting and asking my girlfriend if she loves me and wants to be with me and would it drive her away if i carried this on...
i know i shouldnt be like this but im so insecure and i dont understand why, everyone says im a good looking guy and i get girls easy....but im still insecure it pisses me off
feel like i need reasurrance all the time...
now what i wanted to know would this drive her away and how??
i dont want to carry on l;ike this...i feel like everything good will go wrong, i just want to be confident how do i changeee???
please give advice i'm 22 yr old male :)
I know ive got issues and its not normal to think like this but i can't help it :(...
3 Answers
- ?Lv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
Many people go through this. Just be a good human being and not angry and just think like everyone is family. In every family you do avoid some people too.
Also now focus on your school, job and chores. Make sure to give much love to both parents, help where you can.
School= College you want to go to, major you will go for, student aid of fee waivers or even scholarships ( go to the college your thinking about and just go to the student center and schedule a consular to discuss all this. They are very helpful. You might need to revisit to check that your on track. You can even take college course now if you wanted. Make sure your high schooling is on top of it's game.
Job=find any decent job near by that works with your schedule. Maybe waitress which gets good tips and you can talk so time will go by fast. Make sure to be smart
Chores, just do them asap.
I hope this all will help.
On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.
Love and the Good Life will come
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- 9 years ago
I don't think insecurity is solely the fault of the person, it is your partner's fault too. Maybe she does or says things that make you feel insecure. I sometimes feel insecure but I know it isn't just me cause I was never like this before. Difference is I know what causes it. Maybe you should figure out what exactly you are feeling insecure about and see whether maybe it is something she has said or done. If that is the case, speak to her, if she cares about you she will rectify this mistake on her part. If it really is nothing to do with her and all down to you then yeah it will put a strain on your relationship and I still think you need to pin point the cause and then solve it.
- K8Lv 79 years ago
If you do continue you could drive her away. You do need to work on the self esteem and your fear.