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Insecure please help. relationship advice?

always doubting and asking my girlfriend if she loves me and wants to be with me and would it drive her away if i carried this on...

i know i shouldnt be like this but im so insecure and i dont understand why, everyone says im a good looking guy and i get girls easy....but im still insecure it pisses me off

feel like i need reasurrance all the time...

now what i wanted to know would this drive her away and how??

i dont want to carry on l;ike this...i feel like everything good will go wrong, i just want to be confident how do i changeee???

please give advice i'm 22 yr old male :)

I know i got issuses and shouldnt think like this but i find it really hard to change...sometimes i wonder why i wake up..

Insecure please help. relationship advice?

always doubting and asking my girlfriend if she loves me and wants to be with me and would it drive her away if i carried this on...

i know i shouldnt be like this but im so insecure and i dont understand why, everyone says im a good looking guy and i get girls easy....but im still insecure it pisses me off

feel like i need reasurrance all the time...

now what i wanted to know would this drive her away and how??

i dont want to carry on l;ike this...i feel like everything good will go wrong, i just want to be confident how do i changeee???

please give advice i'm 22 yr old male :)

I know ive got issues and its not normal to think like this but i can't help it :(...

always doubting and asking my girlfriend if she loves me and wants to be with me and would it drive her away if i carried this on...

i know i shouldnt be like this but im so insecure and i dont understand why, everyone says im a good looking guy and i get girls easy....but im still insecure it pisses me off

feel like i need reasurrance all the time...

now what i wanted to know would this drive her away and how??

i dont want to carry on l;ike this...i feel like everything good will go wrong, i just want to be confident how do i changeee???

please give advice i'm 22 yr old male :)

'so many assume, so little know'

how much would that cost? do u think average??

Good looking....low self esteem!!! help?

please help....

I get alot of attention from girls...but the ones i really want, dont want me!!

like last night i was dancing with this girl and her friend asked me if she liked me and she said 'no'.....felt like **** to be honest and really played on my mind...

why cant i get the girls i want!!! they flirt a bit and then they turn me down sometimes!!

whats wrong with me?? am i cursed or is there something wrong with me from everyone else??

like when i was in school i was a chubby kid and no girls liked me or i wasnt in with the popular groups...made fun of etc.

now i'm in good shape get attention it doesnt feel right..im 22 btw!!! woulod my past effet me now???

how can i change me for the better...i feel whatever i do i wont get it in life...especially if i want it!!!

please help....

I get alot of attention from girls...but the ones i really want, dont want me!!

like last night i was dancing with this girl and her friend asked me if she liked me and she said 'no'.....felt like **** to be honest and really played on my mind...

why cant i get the girls i want!!! they flirt a bit and then they turn me down sometimes!!

whats wrong with me?? am i cursed or is there something wrong with me from everyone else??

like when i was in school i was a chubby kid and no girls liked me or i wasnt in with the popular groups...made fun of etc.

now i'm in good shape get attention it doesnt feel right..im 22 btw!!! woulod my past effet me now???

how can i change me for the better...i feel whatever i do i wont get it in life...especially if i want it!!!

here's a pic of me.....advice please Xx

Can't change, feel stuck...help?

Feel worthless, like nobody notices me, feel the odd one out, I think I feel this because as a kid I got negative critisicm and was teased alot about my dad following me. So I felt a joke and different from everyone else, got knocked back when I was younger by alot of girls because I was needy, clingy and expressed my feelings too early on and that really hurt so I was scared of getting rejected because the pain. This is why I believe I'll get rejected because i'm seen as a joke and worthless... I want to change my belief but it seems so true, even though they are just thoughts, they seem believable.

I'm scared of being happy in a relationship incase I get rejected, I got the mentalitynow that eventually in any relationship i'll get rejected, like i'm jinxed or unlucky or something undetectable. I wish I didn't feel this way I feel doomed.

How can I change??

When I was 14 I was fat and found it hard to fit, also my mum was very over-protective so my dad came everywhere with me which was embarrasing.

It feels as though i'm cursed in relationships and i'm the only one like it....

can you help me with advice??

p.s parents constantly argue around me and I ******* hate it!!!

I'm 21 years old btw!

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Feel worthless, like nobody notices me, feel the odd one out, I think I feel this because as a kid I got negative critisicm and was teased alot about my dad following me. So I felt a joke and different from everyone else, got knocked back when I was younger by alot of girls because I was needy, clingy and expressed my feelings too early on and that really hurt so I was scared of getting rejected because the pain. This is why I believe I'll get rejected because i'm seen as a joke and worthless... I want to change my belief but it seems so true, even though they are just thoughts, they seem believable.

I'm scared of being happy in a relationship incase I get rejected, I got the mentalitynow that eventually in any relationship i'll get rejected, like i'm jinxed or unlucky or something undetectable. I wish I didn't feel this way I feel doomed.

How can I change??

When I was 14 I was fat and found it hard to fit, also my mum was very over-protective so my dad came everywhere with me which was embarrasing.

It feels as though i'm cursed in relationships and i'm the only one like it....

can you help me with advice??

p.s parents constantly argue around me and I ******* hate it!!!

I'm 21 years old btw!

Feel worthless, like nobody notices me, feel the odd one out, I think I feel this because as a kid I got negative critisicm and was teased alot about my dad following me. So I felt a joke and different from everyone else, got knocked back when I was younger by alot of girls because I was needy, clingy and expressed my feelings too early on and that really hurt so I was scared of getting rejected because the pain. This is why I believe I'll get rejected because i'm seen as a joke and worthless... I want to change my belief but it seems so true, even though they are just thoughts, they seem believable.

I'm scared of being happy in a relationship incase I get rejected, I got the mentalitynow that eventually in any relationship i'll get rejected, like i'm jinxed or unlucky or something undetectable. I wish I didn't feel this way I feel doomed.

How can I change??

When I was 14 I was fat and found it hard to fit, also my mum was very over-protective so my dad came everywhere with me which was embarrasing.

It feels as though i'm cursed in relationships and i'm the only one like it....

can you help me with advice??

p.s parents constantly argue around me and I ******* hate it!!!

I'm 21 years old btw!

In relationships I think i'm cursed but then I think I can't be because that's crazy :S!!!

I had bad 5 brief sorta relationships...even though they wasn't loong I felt rejected!!! and i think this is why I feel i'm cursed and ever since then when I get in relationships i think they'll go off me not love me, reject me etc.

Am I a schizophrenic if i think this???? that i'm cursed in relationships?? get real anxious over it and my mind races :(

when i'm single i'm fine and don't think about it can rationalize it!!!

how to i change this negative core belief?? it's so hard!!!

Am I crazy for thinking this, When i think about relationship CURSE i feel dammed, it sounds scary lol...like whatever happens i'm dammede in relationships!!!

I want to change i've never been confident and i'm afraid if im happy **** will go wrong, can you guys read this and help me with feednback!!!

what does this sound like...Does it seem realistic to me because i'm focusing on it too much???

I was diagnosed with severe anxiety last year...so the year hasn't been great, I come across confident to people, get compliments but my mind is so negative and thinks about me getting hurt all day long I try not to focus on it and change but it's so hard..... help :)

In relationships I think i'm cursed but then I think I can't be because that's crazy :S!!!

I had bad 5 brief sorta relationships...even though they wasn't loong I felt rejected!!! and i think this is why I feel i'm cursed and ever since then when I get in relationships i think they'll go off me not love me, reject me etc.

Am I a schizophrenic if i think this???? that i'm cursed in relationships?? get real anxious over it and my mind races :(

when i'm single i'm fine and don't think about it can rationalize it!!!

how to i change this negative core belief?? it's so hard!!!

Am I crazy for thinking this, When i think about relationship CURSE i feel dammed, it sounds scary lol...like whatever happens i'm dammede in relationships!!!

I want to change i've never been confident and i'm afraid if im happy **** will go wrong, can you guys read this and help me with feednback!!!

what does this sound like...Does it seem realistic to me because i'm focusing on it too much???

I was diagnosed with severe anxiety last year...so the year hasn't been great, I come across confident to people, get compliments but my mind is so negative and thinks about me getting hurt all day long I try not to focus on it and change but it's so hard..... help :)

How do I become self confident?

I want it fast...i basicially believe i'll fail at everything...relationships mostly, they'll leave me!!!

i try to change but i go back to my low self esteem self!!

my mind doubts things all the time....

how do i stop this and build confidence!!

just things will go wrong and im afraid of people letting me down in (relationships)

ill try thinking positive and then suddenly ill go back to negative...so afraid of rejection...i ******* hate myself like this, i try and change my mindset and it never works!!! what do i do???

its like i think im cursed in relationships and if im happy bad things will happen :(

whats wrong with me and how do i change build confidence...how do i block out these thoughts???

I want it fast...i basicially believe i'll fail at everything...relationships mostly, they'll leave me!!!

i try to change but i go back to my low self esteem self!!

my mind doubts things all the time....

how do i stop this and build confidence!!

just things will go wrong and im afraid of people letting me down in (relationships)

ill try thinking positive and then suddenly ill go back to negative...so afraid of rejection...i ******* hate myself like this, i try and change my mindset and it never works!!! what do i do???

its like i think im cursed in relationships and if im happy bad things will happen :(

whats wrong with me and how do i change build confidence...how do i block out these thoughts???

Am I a schizophrenic?

Think im cursed in relationships....

think everyone willo leave me...and they dont have to have a reason...just literally go off me!!!

also i think if im happy something bad will happen??? anyone think that??

i try to shake this cursed thing/thoughts but i overanalyze everything and its like im obsessed with these thoughts how do i get away from them??

really gets me down its like living in my head...i hate rejection, so scared of hurt and rejection....

i dont hear voices, not paranoid or see things, whats up with me??? how do i get rid of these thoughts

Think im cursed in relationships....

think everyone willo leave me...and they dont have to have a reason...just literally go off me!!!

also i think if im happy something bad will happen??? anyone think that??

i try to shake this cursed thing/thoughts but i overanalyze everything and its like im obsessed with these thoughts how do i get away from them??

really gets me down its like living in my head...i hate rejection, so scared of hurt and rejection....

i dont hear voices, not paranoid or see things, whats up with me??? how do i get rid of these thoughts

Think that i'm cursed with girls/women/relationships and that they will always leave me, reject me, cheat on me basicially i'll be hurt and life will go wrong all the time!!!

and i think if i'm happy something bad will happen when i'm in a relationship or in life...so im scared to be happy..

am I a schizophrenic to think im cursed???

my mind will obsess about it all day and night..if i try and ignore it ill end up thinking about, gets me down real down!!!

I have low self esteem aswell because i find i need attention and im afraid of being rejected and if it happens once it'll happen again and no matter what i do it will always happen

Feel like no point in trying because everything i do i think will turn to **** and ill get hurt...i'm afraid to be happy and confident!!! afraid to be happy because it'll turn crap!!!

this feeling of being cursed eases off if i stay away from girls but it stills bothers me a little and i want a loving confident relationship...wtf is up with me

how do i get out of this...this curse thing in relationships has got a hold over me and makes me think i cant get rid of it or deal with it.....

am i normal???

am i schizophrenic???

whats wrong with me..this curse seems real :(

all i want is to be like everyone else and think whats meant to be will be but its so hard!!

i obsess over this... what disorder do you think i have??? help.....

I have a huge fear of becoming schizophrenic!!

now every little noise I hear like a bang or a noise downstairs or something, if no one else hears it I then think i'm going crazy!!

I keep thinking everyday I'm gonna wake up i'll suddenly start hearing voices, delusions etc.

everyday i'm on edge anxious, hearing out for noises and stuff!!

if i fear schizophrenic does that mean that i'm not mentally ill??

I read up on schizo and became obsessed with it and got scared I have it or will get :S

I'm 21 years old and it's ruining my life worrying about it!!

I have severe anxiety so could my senses be on red alert all the time!!

it ruins my day if i hear a little noise and noone else heard it :( isit because i'm subcoiunciously looking for it???

they sound like household noises or something but they are not obvious, sometimes other people hear it, but maybe it's a habit for my ears to be aware now!!

It worries me my phych doesn't think I have it or my doc, so why do i think i'll get it :S

What's the most weird Obsession/irrational fear you have or have had in the past??

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What things have played on your mind??

like worried you or scared you and what obsessions have you had???

like i'm really worried i'll develop schizophrenia, fear of schizophrenia

i'm on about fears that interfere with your daily lives, not little fears like a monster getting you from a closet lol

i mean irattional ones that make you doubt and continiously worry in cirlcles./..

What's the most weird Obsession/irrational fear you have or have had in the past??

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What things have played on your mind??

like worried you or scared you and what obsessions have you had???

I used to think i was cursed in relationships lol think anyone (my gf) would leave me for no reason!!

Mine now probably getting schizophrenia, hard time dealing with it right now, scares me!!

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What things have played on your mind??

like worried you or scared you and what obsessions have you had???