Good looking....low self esteem!!! help?

Your past could effect you but you shouldn't let it! You are a good looking guy but you have this mindset where you seem to think low of yourself but you're just being paranoid. As for it 'not feeling right', you just have to jump in with the idea that you're now (and always have been) attractive, the only difference now is that your more attractive physically. Dive in the deep end and go find someone you like and ask them out, you'll find someone that'll like you too and they'll say yes. Eventually you'll adjust to the idea of attention as long as you start making the first move. Good luck :)

Stop being so picky. If they don't want you then just be grateful for the ones that do. And get over your 'fat past.' They can't possibly know about it so quit being insecure and feeling like that same fat kid. You're a new man. Also don't be all over them like red on tomatoes. Meaning, don't let them know you're too into them. Girls don't want a man that acts desperate or creepy.

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dont fuss over all this too much. a very simple way to attract people is to become carefree.trust me it works.if u cant really do tht.jus pretend not to care and you would see.i mean some people jus wont like you no matter wat u do.tht happens with manyy!

act freely,have funn, laugh alot, make friends,be yourself ...all this things will drag other's attention to u.and u will feel light and easy..

and heyy,damn those who hate u. there will be many more to like u in future. jus shinee :) !

goodluck

i think that your over thinking.. you need to take things slowly and stop expecting things that will occur when you least expect them.. it might be you who is making this situation hard for yourself

go get a hobby is what i say. stop caring so much about your appearence its not the be all and end all.