Its taking a long time for my wife to orgasm latly?

This could be a clue that you and your wife are starting to drift apart alright. Some possibilities to consider are

1. She might feel you are no longer communicating like you did when you first got together. She may think you aren't listening to her, or she is no longer first in your life. Perhaps you are too much into sports or your job or maybe she is worrying about paying the bills. Certain medications, alcohol and drugs could be getting in the way. Maybe she is starting to resent you. Do you have any bad habits like gambling, drinking or drugs. Do you snore, have bad breath, BO, poor hygiene, bad teeth, whatever. She may be angry if you argue too much and go to bed angry or are you becoming too demanding or inconsiderate, or do you have inlaw problems. Maybe she's been working too hard because of children or her job and is tired. She might not feel good because of some physical or emotional condition. It's even possible she's interested in someone else or thinks you are interested in someone else, She could be getting bored with the marriage or the sex. Frequently the husband thinks everything is fine, but the wife thinks otherwise. What to do.

2. Casually have a heart to heart talk to see what's bothering her. If she knows and opens up take it to heart and make some changes. I don't think it's the sex - I think whatever is bothering her is affecting the sex. In fact it could be worse than it seems. She may be faking her orgasms.

3. If it is the sex then maybe you'll need to make adjustments in that department. Take a night off and treat her like a girl you just met and not a wife. Wine and dine her and take her dancing then instead of going home take her to a motel for the night. After you both shower give her lots of foreplay including oral sex and focus on her clitoris. If she doesn't get dripping wet use some KY Jelly lube and show her what serious intercourse is really like. Ride her cowboy.....

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I just realized your name is emy which means ur a girl. Annnd u have a wife....? Aawwkwarrddd

maybe she has other things on her mind that dont let her consentrate. But because shes taking longer it doesnt mean shes not enjoying it....