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Anonymous asked in Society & CultureReligion & Spirituality · 9 years ago

Christians: Do You Find Obama's Gay Marriage Stance Disgusting?

I mean, of course we all know it is a serious sin mentioned countless times in the OT and NT.

But from a secular worldview, it is just plain nonsense to accept gay marriage. It is hypocritical to accept gay marriage, but then reject polygamy, bi-sexual marriage, "civil rights" to people who don't want to marry but co-habitate (aka fornicate), and such.

Update:

I don't care what color his skin is. I only care about his worldviews, and it stinks. If people are so bent on having a black president, by all means have one. Just don't get a liberal like him.

Update 2:

@Tiffany---truly this is the generation the bible speaks of that calls evil good and good evil.

Update 3:

@Fletcher--But what about all those who are married to one gender, and cheating with the other. Shouldn't they be allowed to marry both? Sounds like you are a bigot and hypocrite.

And by the way, what happened to all the pedophiles? Why, if they are born that way like they claim, do homosexuals not approve of them? Should they stop their behavior because it is immoral? Even though they are born that way? If so, then homosexuals should stop their behavior since they are born that way, but practicing an immoral act.

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@bigwheel: FACT: The bible never suggests polygamy should be practiced. FACT: God speaks against Israel getting a king, knowing that they would marry many wives. FACT: Every instance of polygamy in the bible is almost always shown in a negative view, and negatively impacted the person doing it. FACT: THe bible standard for marriage is 1 man and 1 woman. FACT: The bible often presents facts or historical events, without necessarily suggesting it is okay or moral.

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@FLETCHER: What a joke? Homosexuality doesn't hurt anyone? Tell that to the countless gays suffering with AIDS right now, or have died from aids. You are an ignorant liar.

Secondly, you are saying this: Even though pedophiles are born that way, they shouldn't do it because (BLANK). Well, in that same way, I'm saying that even though homosexuals are born that way, they shouldn't do it because (BLANK). It doesn't matter what reasons we put in the blank, if you reject another sexual practice, you are a hypocrite.

Lastly, Homosexuality has been labeled a mental disease (even as late as the early 2000's by some countries).

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And not to mention all of the other health issues (hurting) with homosexuality, such as anal fissures, colon cancer (from hpv virus), std's, etc.

Update 7:

@Capitalist-UNBELIEVABLE!! Our laws shouldn't be based on morals? Whoa, that's the craziest thing I've ever heard.

About Mental disorders---Like China, and much of the US history in terms of psychiatry.

About hurting people--No, I listed several ways that homosexuality does hurt people, to invalidate the person's claim that it doesn't. My point stands, and it is WELL documented how serious homosexuality harms people. My wife is a nurse, and I won't go into details, but you are in denial.

Fact: Origin of Species is less accurate than harry potter, and not quite as much of a "page turner."

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@Fletcher: "There are no exclusively gay sexually transmitted diseases." Homosexuality is known to be a faster spreader of AIDS and stds, PERIOD.

Secondly, you cite sinful examples of heterosexual activity (ie, sodomy), which of course will HARM people. Nearly anyone on the receiving end is in pain, and will have serious health consequences from it. So it is a sin whether its 2 guys or a guy and a girl.

The point is, you FAIL in your original statement that homosexuality doesn't harm 2 consenting adults. It does in fact harm them. And with regards to oral sex, we are now finding that it increases stomach and throat cancers as well. Again, doesn't matter if it is hetero or homo.

Lastly, you are the stupid one, because you hypocritically (like all gay supporters) shun pedophiles, who geniunely feel this sickening way towards children (from birth sometimes), and banish them as "diseased mentally," or "immoral," yet then go on to applaud the equally

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immoral homosexual activity. It is wrong. Homosexuals know deep down it is wrong. It is lust and sinful lust at that. Homosexuals would be lucky to live to an old age if it wasn't for inventions like "condoms," new HIV treatments, and new cancer treatments.

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@Capitalist--I never said homosexuals should be "banned." If they want to practice filth and risk an early death, so be it (so long as they consent). But to make it a law, let them dress up and get "married" (which, by the way, they never stay that way--look at Rosie and Melissa Ethridge), and give them a tax break for this filth? You've gotta be kidding me!

Update 11:

@FLETCHER: You still don't get it??? When you cite HETERSEXUALS getting STD's, it obvioiusly happened due to SEXUAL IMMORALITY (ie, sleeping around). It is extremely RARE for a hetero couple who remain in a clean marriage to EVER get any STD, cancer, colon fissure, AIDS, etc.

Do you still not get that point? Because you keep citing that other people get STDS? Yeah, I guess they do if they are whores or prostitutes. But people following GOD's way of living are surely not going to get that.

Do you see why your arguments keep appearing so lame? Homosexuality is a dangerous and sickening thing. Period. I don't bully homosexuals, and I don't care what people want to do. But if you are going to change laws to support that filth, or parade it on TV, then I'm gonna take a stand and share my views. And my views contain FACTS that are a little uncomfortable for them, because it reveals their filth, their hypocrisy towards others who are "born that way," etc.

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  • 9 years ago
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    i find it hard to understand anyone's support of homosexuality. when people think about homosexuality and what they do to one another sexually, it seems amazing to me that anyone is okay with it. something that unnatural is just not right to condone. next they will be condoning bestiality or cleptomania because someone declares they were born that way.

  • 9 years ago

    What on Earth, might I politely ask, is 'bisexual' marriage?

    Anyway, I honestly don't think a person like yourself would be able to appreciate what a 'secular worldview' would actually look like. Quit pretending that you can.

    Just as an added note, I would love to see civil rights extended to people who don't want to marry, but co-habitate. Where I come from, Australia (land of the sane... marginally so), such rights are already provided. De-facto couples already receive just about all the same rights as married couples (although it may make the bureaucracy a bit more difficult).

    Polygamy... well.. I haven't yet established a viewpoint. Being a Christian and believer in Biblical scripture, I'm curious on as to where 'you' derive your vehement opposition to polygamy from. Polygamy is RAMPANT in the Bible.

    Additional Comment:

    FACT The Bible is a load of hogswash.

    FACT The majority of cases of HIV are in Africa. The majority of persons with HIV in Africa are heterosexual. HIV is not an intrinsically 'gay' virus, nor is AIDS.

    FACT Homosexuality is no longer regarded as a mental illness in decent, western nations. FACT The Earth is no longer considered to be flat. FACT The solar system is no longer considered geocentric. FACT Scientific views and opinions are prone to change based on the available evidence.

    FACT if you deny evolution by natural selection in spite of the evidence then you're a ******* ignorant piece of trash whose opinion counts for nothing.

    FACT your FACTS are not FACTS.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I think he said this to get reelected. If he wasn't going up for reelection, he wouldn't have made a stand either way.

    If gays get the right to marry, then the polygamists in Utah will have rights, and older people will soon have the right to marry minors (like in Utah), and then people will want to marry their pets. Where does it end? With God in the picture or the ancient pagan gods being the first religions, marriages have always been done under the name of religion until the 1800s. Then courthouses could marry people. CHurches, temples and mosques don't divorce couples. Only the Catholic CHurch has annulments. And they are very hard to get approved and are rare. Civil unions make a mockery of the sanctity of marriage. Marriage is a sacrament. A vow said before others and before God.

  • 9 years ago

    What exactly is "bisexual marriage"? Do you even know what bisexual is? Bisexuals are attracted to men and women. If a man is bisexual, he will either marry and man (gay marriage) or a woman (heterosexual marriage). Do you think that bisexual want to marry one person of each gender? Because they don't.

    Edit: Now you're generalizing. Bisexuals don't cheat any more than heterosexuals cheat. A bisexual person may do this, but a majority of them don't. I guess you wouldn't know this, though, considering you don't seem to know much about this issue in the first place.

    Pedophiles are unacceptable because children cannot properly comprehend sexual relations. Children are not mature enough to handle such a thing, physically and emotionally. Pedophilia can cause victims to develop mental and emotional issues later in life. However, homosexuality does not hurt anybody, assuming it is consenting between two adults.

    SecondEdit...: AIDS is not a homosexual issue. AIDS is an issue that is caused by sex without proper protection. Straight people can get AIDS just like gay people can, as well as other STDs. There are no exclusively gay sexually transmitted diseases. And many straight people have anal sex as well, and are subject to any problems that may occur with it. Many men who are straight also like having anal sex (with women, of course) because some people view it as more enjoyable. Also, not all gay men have anal sex, many gay people only have oral sex. According to AVERT, about one third of gay men have never had anal sex. With your logic, I suppose heterosexuality hurts people, too. Mmhm. I'm the hypocrite here. So you're saying that homosexuals who enter a loving, committed relationship are equal to pedophiles abusing children? You know how stupid that sounds, right? And it doesn't matter what other countries think. Most of the well developed countries have removed homosexuality from the list of mental disorder, likely including your own. Homosexuality was labeled as a mental disorder wrongly. Psychiatrists claimed that gays were crazy and could easily be distinguished from straight people, but this was proven wrong (See the book Hatred, Bigotry, and Prejudice: Definitions, Causes and Solutions By Robert M Baird Stuart E Rosenbaum.)

    Edit....: Yes, and ALL of the ways you mentioned that homosexuality hurts people also hurts straight people. STDs, straight people get those. AIDS, straight people get that. Problems that occur because of anal sex, straight people get those. Do you honestly believe that only gay people can get such problems? 38.2% of straight men between ages 20 and 39 have had anal sex. 1 in every 5 men have had gay sex, but only 1 in every 10 people identify as gay. 32.6% of women between ages 18 and 44 have had anal sex. You CANNOT get certain diseases simply because you are gay.

    Oh, well now I see how you work.

    You are trying so very very hard to make gays look bad because your bible tells you so. Figures. You think homosexuality is wrong because of the bible. Why am I not surprised? You do know that about 51% of Christians accept homosexuality, right? Just join them and make it easy for yourself. By the way, homosexuality is not immoral.

    Sigh. Geez. You obviously do care what other people do. Do me a favor and reread the things you just typed. If you didn't care what other people did, you wouldn't be arguing so much. You wouldn't be so upset. Regarding this hypocrisy you keep going on about, let me ask you something. One example would be, do you support the military? If you do and you think murder is wrong, that is also hypocrisy. Do you believe in the death penalty for murderers? That's also hypocrisy. I don't think that you realize, that although everything you've said seems very centered on gay men, women have higher rates of sexually transmitted diseases. People who "whore around" as you say are not the only people who get sexually transmitted diseases and just because a person is Christian and is in a marriage does not guarantee that the person is not "immoral" by your standards. In fact, heavily Christian and Conservative states have been known to be the largest issuers of pornography. Do you find pornography immoral, too? As far as homosexuality being a mental disorder, the APA said "Same-sex sexual attractions, behavior, and orientations per se are normal and positive variants of human sexuality—in other words, they do not indicate either mental or developmental disorders."

    What I find most interesting about you is that you claim facts yet you have no sources to back up these claims. Strange. In any case, I have pneumonia and I am very tired. I am not going to argue anymore because frankly I don't think you're listening to anything that I am saying. I'm going to put more links in my source box, perhaps you may look at them.

    I hope you have a nice day.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    >They find all of Obama's views disgusting because he's black and in the White House.

    Kinda wrecks the Illuminati theories as well doesn't it?

    How did they allow a "black muslim" in the white house?

    Too funny.

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    >Homosexuality doesn't hurt anyone? Tell that to the countless gays suffering with AIDS right now, or have died from aids.

    There are far, far more heterosexuals with and that have died from AIDs than Homosexuals. Is heterosexual marriage disgusting?

    >You are an ignorant liar.

    Hey! You too!

  • 9 years ago

    He tainted the white houses with his blackness.

    Of course they are disgusted. Its funny too because I am an atheist I think he is too socially Conservative for my taste but that isn't good enough for them they want some form of christian fascism imposed on everyone.

    "but practicing an immoral act."

    Doesn't matter if something is immoral or not. Our laws shouldn't be based on morals. Should be based if an act hurts someone else. Gays having sex doesn't hurt anyone. Straights having sex with each other doesn't hurt anyone. But 40 year old man having sex with a 12 year old has been shown to cause mental harm to the 12 year old. So maybe that 40 year old had an disorder since he was born but unfortunately his sexual preferences causes a victim so we get let it go on.

    "Lastly, Homosexuality has been labeled a mental disease (even as late as the early 2000's by some countries)."

    Lol which ones. Like iran? I willing to bet countries that have likely have theocratic roots.

    ", such as anal fissures, colon cancer (from hpv virus), std's, etc."

    Well smoking bad for you too. We let that go on. They are doing it to themselves. Adults can decide whether the risk is worth it or not. These things you mention can happen to straights too.

    "FACT: The bible often presents facts or historical events, without necessarily suggesting it is okay or moral."

    FACT: The bible is as true as a harry potter book.

    "to invalidate the person's claim that it doesn't. My point stands, and it is WELL "

    I read it. Doesn't matter smoking causes harm too. No one bans that. You saying we should ban gay sex because they might harm each other? Don't you believe consenting adults should be allowed to make such decisions? You are obviously delusional if you can't see i invalidate your argument unless you believe that adults have no right or ownership over there body then we are at a stale mate.

    "Fact: Origin of Species is less accurate than harry potter, and not quite as much of a "page turner."

    I found biology interesting. I also read the bible it came off as a harry potter book when i was 9 because it was so outrageously ridiculous to see talking snakes and talking burning bushes were true. At least origin of species was based off physical evidence and conclusions based off such evidence unlike the bible which was just a story passed down from bunch of dirty savages.

    "@Capitalist-UNBELIEVABLE!! Our laws shouldn't be based on morals? Whoa, that's the craziest thing I've ever heard."

    You know you quoted that out of context probably because you couldn't reply to my argument.

    "and give them a tax break for this filth? You've gotta be kidding me!"

    I think Christianity is a filthy sick mental disease. Does that mean I can take your tax breaks away since I find it filthy?

    Btw why do you get to monopolize marriage with the government? Government has no role is marriage. Marriage is a contract of sharing propriety if someone wants to make it between the same sex then its no business of yours.

    Don't you think its a bit cruel to deny homosexuals tax breaks while you get to live large off there backs since they paying for more to the government then you? You free loader.

    "Yeah, I guess they do if they are whores or prostitutes."

    Acutally its very rare to get an STD from a prostitutes in placers were its regulated in some Nevada counties the cases of STDs have been ZERO. Even in porn without condoms the chances are very low only 3 out of thousands of actors have gotten it in california .

    "finding that it increases stomach and throat cancers as well."

    I like you cite some scientific studies.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I think same-sex marriage should not be implemented.

    "The institution of marriage should not be defined by presidents or polls, governors or the media."

    We've been doing "a lot" of illegal things for Pete's sake, just don't mess with the sacredness of marriage.

    Also, he's just doing it so people would love him.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Find something else to *itch about. Let others have the freedom to do as they want. It doesn't even affect you in any way,,,,get a hobby or something to take your mind off other people's business

    Source(s): Read the answers above, The people have spoken, you lose.
  • Esther
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    I would not use the word disgusting. He is trying to garner the most votes possible and chose to try and appeal to all those who want gay marriage. As he obviously is not a Christian who reveres the bible, I am not the least surprised at what he did.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Indeed, we should accept polygamy too and give the full set of marriage benefits to people who co-habit

    Out of interest what the hell is bi-sexual marriage? Marrying half a dude and half a chic?

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