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Husband has no sympathy for my pregnancy?

I am 30 weeks pregnant. I am a nursing assistant at a nursing home. If some of you don't know the job is physically strenuous. I work fuLl time hours still and when I come home I'm tired. My back hurts my feet hurt. If I say anything along those lines he says. Oh what ever your fine, quit being whiney . Today he asked me why I don't work 60 hours a week like I used to! He wasn't joking. My husband works out of town and is home one day a week. So on top being 30 weeks pregnant and working a full time job I am taking care of our 2 year old and doing all of the house work. He never asks how I am feeling.. Nothing...what's with him??

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It looks like he is a bastard. Senseless.

    I recommend quitting your job and living in a smaller place even if you have to.

    You need to address why he doesn't care. You need to address what are foundation of why we fight. Find ways to fix it. When talking to partner just hug while saying it. You can ask things if you need answers on yahoo answers. Write down before you talk to him. Talk in a private place with time to talk. Get to the bottom of things. Things needs to change because both of you deserve a happy life always.

    After 7 years of perfect marriage then another child if desired.

    If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

    I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace.

    Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

    Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

    Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

    Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.

    On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

    Love and the Good Life will come

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    My boyfriend hasn't gotten ill, yet he does have temper swings and cravings. He has won some pounds for the reason that i've got been pregnant. i've got examine that 0.5 of expectant fathers will adventure sympathy being pregnant. even although at circumstances he's no longer that sympathetic. :)

  • 9 years ago

    SOUNDS LIKE A SELFISH PRICK THAT IS MORE CONCERNED WITH THE MONEY COMING IN THEN HOW YOU ARE DOING. Really I think it is time you guys have a serious talk he is neglecting his duties as a husband and a father.

    God Bless and Good Luck.

  • 9 years ago

    He's a complete jerk. Tell him to stop being so insensitive.

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