Weight issue, how to handle this?

u should take him as he is if u like him enough. but if it bothers u u could try to get him to work out with u so it'll create a stronger bond between the both of u and he'll lose weight. hope that helps.

I say you should date someone you are attracted to physically and mentally. Why settle? If the guy does not have the drive to stay in shape and live a healthy life, then he certainly won't have it if you push him to lose 30 pounds. He has to want this change for himself. You can't mold a man to what you want them to be. So either you accept him for who he is, or move on with your life and date someone who you are more physically attracted to.

Try getting him to work out with you as recreation. Even something as simple as walking can help him get in shape without intimidating him. Don't admit that his weight is a problem. That might offend him.

i've been in your exact situation! i really liked the girl for the person she was but she felt bad about herself and always put herself down??? but in general, if the sex isn't good then the relationship won't lst...but not true for everyone.. that was the main deal breaker for me and i tried to help her but it ended none the less...

If you tell him that it could ruin it. Try to get him to jog with you or take walks. Maybe even see if he wants to go to the gym with you or something.

you don't approach it.. just accept him the way that he is.. he can always lose the weight.. his personality is more important !

Think if you were in his shoes. what if he was you, and he didnt take you because you were overweight. your heart would be teared. like they told us in kindergarten, "Treat others like you want to be treated" Right? Id take him as he is, if hes sweet, nice, respectful, thats all that matters.

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