What to do if your mother hates you?

Chelsea, don't ever think about running away from home. Believe it or not, the world is a dangerous place. At least at home you are physically safe.

You have to have a serious conversation with your dad. What your mother is doing is called emotional abuse.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_abuse

Your mother has to see a therapist. A mother calling her child a "bit**" is not an acceptable behaviour. She clearly has issues that have to be addressed.

Well, be strong. I wish you all the best.

I am a mother of a 13 year old girl and I know you guys can be a handful, but with that being said, I would never cuss at my child or hit her with malice.

Right now you are going through so much and life seems almost impossible but this too shall pass. Things are never as bad as they appear in the light of day. You will not forever be 14. One day you may have a daughter and you will know how NOT to treat a child. If I were in your shoes I would talk to your dad first, then talk to your mom. Have a good sit down and tell her how you feel. If you don't want to talk to her face to face, write her a letter explaining how her actions effect you.

As a mother I can tell you that she loves you, but as a teenager its not always easy to see it.

Sounds like Mom needs some medication for her menopause if thats what she is in maybe she is bipolar I have been going through meno and i do not talk to anyone in my house hold and there is always drama but I keep my cool and bite my tongue but for her to lash out and the name calling I doubt its meno.

Tell your mother how you feel. If the problem continues see a counsler and try to stay out of her way as much as possible. God bless!

well I think you should just ignore her , or talk to a counselor