Why does it seems if the male /man get away with not paying child support or participating in the welfare of t?

It's b/c they are losers, its up to them to pay/get a job to pay but thats what happen when you have kids with losers, if you have a son teach him to be a real man and not be like his father.

Oh don't be so ridiculous !

When a woman wants a child, she should plan it and be in a marriage that is in fully working order and that the couple are financially able to support this child. Thats all there is to it.

However, for those women who choose open their legs, have unprotected sex with a man who they don't have a very good relationship with are asking to be a single mum.

Women are the ones who carry the child in their womb for 9 months, give birth to it and who breast feed it. Women are automatically the main parent. Thats part of the responsibility involved when becoming parents.

You claim to be 'stuck with it all' child are supposed to be a blessing, youre not supposed to consider them a burden. How selfish are you ? You're selfish acts, and you bring children in to this ?

And then you blame ALL men. Not EVERY last man fails to pay child support, you can't paint every man with the same brush because a minority of them fail to pay up. This is discrimination against male parents.

Perhaps you should of had children with a more responsible man, stop slagging off all men and learn to love your children and not view them as an inconvience.

Well, handle over the children to said man.