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Lv 5

Looking after an incontinent husband?

I'm talking to my wife about the potential risks associated with Prostate Cancer and the subject of incontinence came up...

When I suggested that we could at last fit rubber sheets and play wet and messy she was none to pleased. So I suggested that I wear man sized diapers. I've been trying them out the last couple of nights (and days), but my wife flat refuses to get involved. She won't change me and she won't even put the powder on!!

What should I do about this? How can I convince her to care for me like a good wife would?

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago
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    care for yourself and stop being a whiny baby.

    Source(s): my opinion
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    have a straight up conversation about this serious topic.... if my man had prostate cancer & we had the conversation that you two did there would be no way... i could or would refuse to help him... sex isnt the only reason i love him but i love him for just being him...she took the vow for better or worst & that isnt the worst like you said there are other things you two can do

  • 9 years ago

    My bf needs care too because he is paralyzed and I enjoy helping him out and making sure he is comfortable. that's just because I love him and when you love someone you'll do anything for that person. that's just the way I see it.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    If you were serious, I would be more than willing to be sympathetic.

    How about calling her mommy?

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