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Guys is it ok to date a 14 year girl?

omg we love each other we both really do please guys write gentile comments i would really appricciate it.

please dont' call me a pedophile or a creeper i am not interested in sex i am a romantic guy i only blieve in love please i would appricciate you guys not thinking that i am a sex offender of a child molester ok back in february i met a girl on myspace she is 14 years old we have been dating for 4 months now but, she has never told me the truth about her real age she told me that her real age was 18 and we both have fallen in love whit each other for all this past months i mean she does'nt look anything like she is a 14 year old of age she looks 19 years old and she just told me that she was 14 and she asked me if it was ok whit me i dont' really know what should i do? guys please help she has'nt even talked to her parents yet i am afraid of getting in trouble whit there parents and the law but we both really love each other so much! should i leave her or have a relationship whit her? i know i am 24 years old she is considered as a minor but she does'nt show her real age what should i do guys me and her are going insane we dont' know if its a good idea we dont' want to brake up we love each other please what should i do? i am totally an adult is anyone ever dated a 14 year girl before? guys if you are 24 please give me some advices i would really appricciate it

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You are 24 years old and she's 14? Hm, I think you should try to move on. . .

    Respectfully, I think it seems very wrong for you to date her. I'm not saying true love can't happen, but I think that girl doesn't know what true love is and that she doesn't have any experience with relationship before. Because she's still a teenager. Therefore, that makes her the innocent one while you're the one that takes advantage of it. I know you're not, but common man. You can get a real woman around your age. Not a young teenager. If you were still around her age, then that's ok. But this age difference is way too big. I don't think her parents and yours would approve of this. If you truly love her, then let her goes. She still have a bright future ahead of her. Don't ruin her life by make her goes through rejections from family, talks from other, and all the stresses that you guys will face if you guys were to be together. Because you're an adult. And you know pretty well that you guys will get flamed by people that know you for this. So while the storm is not happen yet, don't let it happens. I think it's time for you to move on.

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  • 9 years ago

    You met her on myspace? So if you know each other over the internet and have never met in person what kind of relationship is that? It could be a 50 year old man your dating! Saying you completely love each other when youve never met tells me right there you probably dont even know what love is. Maybe I dont understand the internet thing but it sounds naive and childish, irrational. Theres always that other chance you could get in trouble to. If it were me, I wouldnt take the chance, im sorry. Try dating someone a little closer to your age and not over the internet, keep it real not virtual.. It will be better in the long run, your ready at age for a serious relationship and commitment, so find one you can comit to and love wihout the extra difficulties.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    If she lied to you in the first place, the only thing she wanted was some action. Trust me, this is coming from a 14 year old. Either she's really lonely or you're a pedo. And you said you weren't one so all I can say is run away. The only way to be with her is wait until she's of legal age.

    Not worth being a registered sex offender, not worth losing all respect from your family and friends. Not to mention, if you ever have kids, you would have to tell them all about the time of how you became a sex offender.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    I suppose it is a bit of an age change. It would be one of a kind in the event you had been 26 and she or he was 23. However 14 and 17 are significant age variations. 14 year olds are extra like kids and 17 year olds are extra like adults.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    No offense but I think its disgusting that your dating a 14 year old which you have never met in person and if she couldn't even tell you the truth about her age how are you two in love in ordered to love or be loved you need to be truthful with your lover if not it's not meant to be please break up with her this disturbs me you are 10 years older then her she's 14 how would she know if your the love of her life if she barley has lived her life yet?

  • 5 years ago

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  • 9 years ago

    Age is only a number! Is love is 35 years apart it don't matter. Love is love is god meant for you two to be together then it will be just that no matter the age. Society today will look at you as a rapists and other stupid **** but you follow your heart and none other!

  • 9 years ago

    No that's not okay! Wait till she's 18, or 20, or 22, maybe then

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Get someone your own age before you end up in jail.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    seems legit

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