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My friend is so moody! What should I do?

Ok well I'm nearly 18 and she's just turned 16. She's my nextdoor neighbour and been friends with me and my little sister for 5 years. The thing is 50% of the time I see her she's in a good mood, 50% of the time in a bad mood! Me and my sister go to dance with her, and there she acts completely different, always sucking up to her friends there and ignoring me and my sister. Last night we were in a show, and in the afternoon we had a dress rehearsal, so between that and the show my friendship group (including my neighbour, sister,and some other girls) stayed in town and then went for a meal. The whole day our neighbour completely ignored me+my sister,and whenever I said something to her she ignored me or dictated me.she went to the toilet with the rest of our group to get ready when in th restaurant,+me+my sister stayed at the table.2 of my friends told me that our neighbour was in a mood with us+was bitching about me+my sister in the toilet,+trying to turn other people against me.I even messaged her last night to tell her I though she seemed very off with me+my sister yesterday+why?Never got a reply,despite her haven tweeted since then!I can't think of anything I've done!I'm very sensitive+really take that to offence.I guess it's because I've been bullied a lot at school in the past

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  • 9 years ago

    Sounds like to me your so called "friend" has some other unresolved issues going on in her life? Maybe she is being mistreated at home by a parent or older sibling and therefore she is acting out her unhappiness and lack of control in her own life by bullying someone that she feels is weaker (or sensitive in your case) I think the best thing you could do in this situation is ask her what it is that she has against you and I can almost guarantee you that either she is gonna completely ignore the question (because in all honesty it's not really YOU that she hates, it's herself) or she's gonna come up with some lame response (the 1st thing that she could think of to say) but if I were you I wouldn't be bothered by her lack of social skill's and politeness I would start ignoring her also and start looking for some better friends. I think you should feel pity for the poor girl and just kinda move on! I wish you the best and hold your head up high and don't stand for her or anyone else to try to belittle you and make you feel like less of a person because in all honesty your a much bigger person if you just walk away and for not stooping to their level!

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  • 9 years ago

    Hey, just tell her how you truly fell about her. Tell her that how much you worth your friendship and make her convince that her friend will be there for her anytime she want.

    And another thing you should remember is, don't ever pretend that you like the people you don't. If someone don't know how to worth you, just let them go. Someone who knows to worth you, will always take your back.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Has she ever been in any dating formerly? If sure then the sort of habit is exceptionally obvious. as quickly as she tries to be pleased together with her buddies such as then you there could be some guilt or unhappiness of left by myself by utilising her better half sort of feeling arises and he or she will become particularly.

  • 9 years ago

    ditch her right away or she will bring you down to her miserable life, it will be something you will regret in years you come, there's nothing worse than someone like her who by the sound of it is happy to take advantage of your friendship

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  • 9 years ago

    try and cheer her up if she doesn't improve ditch her for another friend she sounds like she has an attitude problem.

  • 9 years ago

    ask her politely if she is on her period then offer her a tampon or sanitary napkin as a peace offering.

  • 9 years ago

    She's bipolar. tell her or deal with it.

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