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My friend gets chased by alot of guys but?!?

okay here it goes I personally think I'm cuter (we're asian) I have permed hair and full bangs I have long eyelashes and double eyelids (almond shaped quite squinted) milk like skin and doll like lips and I wear hair bows she has straight shoulder length hair she braids her hair and puts it in a ponytail she's quite simple actually, she has round eyes have double eyelids and long eyelashes and a high nose and a slim face and nice lips she's half a pound skinnier but she gets all the guys all I get are girl compliments I'm not confident around people I don't know (High school) when I pass by a group of people I avoid eye contact and suddenly be passive she's very open and not shy she's a people person Is there anything I lack? do I try too hard? or is it that she really looks better than me people say I look cuter mostly other girls from school whom I do not know she's really nice how can I not feel inferior and jealous of her?

Update:

I don't really care about all the guys chasing after her but there is this one guy who I really like I tried my best I fixed my acne pron skin with countless and countless of home remedies and treatments and thousands of trips to the dermatologist, tried my best to lost weight, fix my hair and teeth everything and I'm worried that my hard work which lasted for almost 6 years will all be gone to waste :/

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Personality

    See... You are prettier but you lack confidence

    your friend on the other hand is very confident thats why she gets all the guys.

    you should try being more open with people and making jokes and laughing.

    have more confidence and you will notice that the guys will start wanting you more!

    just have a little self confidence and you will be able to tell the difference

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Be urself, looks arent everything so ur gud even if she is cute dnt mean shes cuter than u beauty comes from witin besides guys arent just impressed by looks alone bring ur personality out u should b gud

  • 9 years ago

    Her Personality

  • It`s almost certainly her cheerful and open personality that makes her more popular, not her looks. Looks are not everything.

    But remember, if you are a more shyer, quieter or modest person, that is just you. You are who you are, and there certainly are people who will also like `your type`.

    Just continue to be yourself and have confidence in yourself.

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  • 9 years ago

    Most of the guys probably go to her because of her personality. It may have nothing to do with looks. Don't even worry about it. High school is not forever and you will one day find that out. You will find someone one day.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    People who are open, regardless of their looks, will get more attention. It's like I always say "show me a fat girl that is willing to sleep with any guy, and i'll show you the most popular girl in the school".

  • 9 years ago

    Is not that she looks cuter, is just that she acts more confident. You don't have to act like her or anything, be yourself, but relaxing and getting with the flow would make things easier.

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