When you lose the will to live because you've always been an outcast what do you do?

Same thing I always did, whatever I chose to do.

If you're an "outcast" it is more than likely of your own choice and doing. People don't just "cast out" other people for no reason; it is often because of how the person acts; or what they do; or what they say, etc. ... all of which are choices they make for themselves.

Always doesn't mean it will be forever. If you have been an outcast, I doubt that you have been an outcast to everybody. There is always going to be that someone out there that DOES not consider you one after all, so what you should do is don't give up because of it or anything the will" is always going to be there just like you found the will to write this question without planning it to, it just comes naturally. Think about it.

You should never lose the will to live because you are life itself. You are very special and you're here for a reason. You are greater than those who hurt you and make you feel bad about yourself. It's not what they've done to you it's how you react to what they've done. You don't have to be an outcast because of others. You need to think highly of yourself. You need to know that you're very special no matter what others may think of you. It's up to you to get up and look at life in the eyes and say:" Here I am! I'm ready for you Mr. LIfe because I'm good enough."

My friend, you need to change your attitude and take hold of your inner strength. Be strong and everything will be fine. Good luck to you and start living your best life because you deserve it.

You are looking at life from society to u. Dont do that. You are you. You have life. its your life. nobody elses. Nobody can have your life and it only belongs to you. Im an outcast too. Im intersexed. Its all messed up if I look at it from society to me. But thats not going to help me by doing that. Its my life and actually I wouldnt want life any other way. People see me and they are confused as to whether Im a guy, a girl, a lesbian or gay. But its not their life. Its mine. Sure, I will never have a husband or have babies. And I dont believe .... in my opinion..... in sex changes. It changes nothing. This is how I was born. Im not going to go under a scalple for society. Im happy with how I am. I dont need a husband. I have my life and thats all I need.

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Does it get sad? Yes. But this is what I have. This is mine. I play the piano, have a beautiful dog, love sports, graduate from college next year, love music and singing, like going for rides and days in the sun or by the lake.

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I cant have any friends because I think and feel and respond and internalize everything female. I have female sensations and some female organs. I cannot fit in even if I act real hard. People can see that something is amiss with me. They stare at me. Guys wanna hang with guys or have sex with pure women. So that leaves me out of the mix.

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And you know what? Thats ok. My life is about me. Its about beauty. About smiling in the sun. About feeling good about me as an individual unique from all others. Nobody can have this life. People call me man, sir, mr, dude and him. Periodically, they call me she, mam, ms and her. Guys wear the big watches and girls wear the thin ones. Guys wear long shorts and girls the short ones. Girls can wear earrings at work and guys cannot. The list goes on. Does it hurt? Yes. I dont wear shorts even when its 95. I dont wear any watches. I will not use a public bathroom.

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I see a guy that is cute and i am forced to maintain composure and pretend.

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But yet still.......this is my life and I accept. Are there challenges? Of course. But I can still play the piano and take my dog for walks. Do I cry sometimes? Yes. But I can still go to McDonalds and buy an ice cream cone. This is my life and I love me.

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If I can do this, you can too. Trim your toe nails, buy a movie, an ice cream cone, feel the sun on your face and love yourself. Its the best love of all.

Do volunteer work where you would be appreciated very much and it will change your perspective. There are always others worse off than ourselves. Do the opposite of what bullies do to elevate themselves. Volunteering has changed my life for the best and you make better friends that volunteer as well. Therapy could also be an extra boost. Good luck!

Therapy would be good, um support will help you ALOT, so whether you find it with family or a friend, through God it's good. Finding motivation. Find something worth struggling for, because that's going to be the reason to hold on. There probably is something there that you are holding on to or else you wouldn't be asking for help. Good luck, hope you find that will to live soon

Therapy

When that happens, you learn to live for yourself instead of others. And when you're alive because you want to be, that's when you'll find others who want the same.

I hope the day I die

no prospect of anything

You have to push through it, I currently am.