Lemme try this again. I just said yes to his marriage proposal. ?

You are naive if you think you can't wear a white dress... it's your wedding, you can wear whatever color you want to wear. It's just a color.

Meanwhile, i wonder what you and this 45 year old man have in common, besides sex? It boggles the mind.

it rather is a sturdy ingredient, yet in assessment to a civilian marriage a military one takes quite a number of paintings.My dad replaced into in the army. that's kinda like being married to a cop or a doctor, the hours could be long and a decision can are available at any 2d the place he ought to might desire to deliver out. attempt to delay having young ones until you're the two optimistic that he would be staying positioned, lower back no ensures yet you may noticeably lots see if he will might desire to be packing up and shifting out.He might might desire to circulate someplace you may't. He perhaps long gone for 2 or 3 years at a time. And he's probably no longer allowed to tell you a number of the failings that are bothering him. it rather is a huge existence you have loose housing, and scientific. you have a post substitute (a food market) which you may purchase issues very low-priced. you have an computerized kinfolk anyplace you circulate. golf equipment and agencies which you will connect. sturdy success

Katiee, you got plenty of reasonable answers the first time you asked this.

And, to be honest, if you aren't mature enough to simply tell your family that you're engaged and wear whatever color wedding dress you want to, I'm not entirely sure you're mature enough to get married.

The way you talk about this in both posts, it comes off like some big, exciting game and not a realistic and mature life decision. Take some deep breaths and think this through, okay?

It won't last so don't have kids otherwise u r set for life.

Oh Lord....good luck girl...you will need it.