I can cook but i have to convince myself each time for it..why?

Cooking all the time is boring and then there's the cleanup after which is more boring and both require work. The food is eaten in 10 minutes and usually doesn't get alot of compliments. Everyday meals tend to run along the same lines and that gets boring too. Try out new recipes, Yahoo shine has some excellent ones, fast and good and different. If you have time watch some Rachael ray or look up on food network, she has alot of meals that are fast and easy. Some variety makes it more fun and the family appreciates new things. Most of the time I double recipes and put 1/2 in zip lock bags, write name and date on it and freeze for those nights when I just don't feel like cooking! Play with it and have some fun with it and enjoy! Good luck!

So you CAN cook, but don't care to...no big deal...get take-out or go out...

What does this have to do with Marriage or Divorce???

Why? You answered your own question; you're too lazy.

Now why did you post this question in the Marriage and Divorce section?

Fear of failure. You must not be proficient in cooking. The cons out weigh the pros...until your stomach growls...