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bf holiday without me?

so my bf and i had planned a trip / mini holiday for four days with some friends.. and we got all excited for weeks, and i was just excited to get out of the house and do something.. but then some people pulled out and he didn't want to go anymore, so i didn't want to if he wasn't going. So then i was thinking, thats okay we can just hang out for a fews days and make our own fun, and agreed. but now he is going away for a whole week with 7 other people (guys and girls).. and i wasn't invited. so now I'm left at home alone while everyone is out having a great time. I pretended i was excited for him because he really wanted to go.. but I'm so cut that i wasn't invited.. and we had been planning this week together for ages! What should i do?

Update:

its not like i don't know his friends.. we hang out all the time!! they are more his friends than mine.. but when we started going out i became good friends with them too.. so i don't get why i wouldn't be invited.

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  • 9 years ago
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    If I were in your position, I would feel very disappointed that I was not invited to the trip that he decided to go on with his friends... because you had already planned to go somewhere with friends together and that fell through, so he should have WANTED to take you on this new trip with these other friends.

    You probably pretended to excited because you didn't want to feel needy and upset, which could lead to an argument. But I think you should question and bring it up to him, ask him why he didn't feel the need to invite you when he knew you wanted to do a vacation together.

    It doesn't seem like he is thinking of you. Re-think your relationship if he's acting like this.

    Hope that helped a little.....

  • 9 years ago

    Express your concerns to him. Sit him down and just say 'look i was really excited to go on holiday with you, then when it didn't look possible and we made other plans to spend a week together I was really happy, and now knowing that your going away and i was not invited, i am kind of hurt and will miss your company" maybe after hearing this he will be up to try arrange something with you when he is back. good luck x

  • 9 years ago

    Well ya should've said something! He's your bf, so u have a right to ask if u can go. Maybe the 7 other people are people you dont know so he might've thought you'd be unconfortable with them. If he's THAT clueless that he just dumps u there and goes off vacationing on his own, then make it clear how ur feeling.Then go have fun with your friends without him and tell him all about it.

    ;) dont get too serious and make it a fight though.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Wow I would flip and leave him tat not right and girls for 7 days okay I would burn anything he has in your house now o boy I'm getting mad Ijust about thinking about it thats mess up tell him maybe he can have sex with one of the guys up his @ss but not from me not anymore see if he likes that

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Well, if you are living with him, be gone when he returns. If it's your place, have his stuff on the porch and change the locks. He's an a$shole. You should not be treated like an accessory.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    If he really cared about you he wouldve made sure you could come, sounds like hes up to something fishy, do you trust these guys and girls??

  • 9 years ago

    Oh look, there's a lemon on yahoo!!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    ask him why he did like that to you?

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    ignore him

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