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Should I let my 19 year old daughter share a bed with her boyfriend?
My daughter and her boyfriend are both 19 and have been dating for two years but have known each other for 12 years. I trust them both, they are both university students with part time jobs. The boy is very respectful and sweet and I know that he takes very good care of my daughter. We get a long well, he came with us on a month trip last year and will also be joining us for another month this year. I can see that their relationship is strong.
I know that my daughter would like to share a bed with her boyfriend, however originally, I was not okay i with them sharing a bed, because it does seem weird that my little girl would be sharing a bed with a boy, especially at 17! However, this was two years ago. (On a side note: We have educated her well about sex and last year she did approach me and ask to be put on the pill, so i know that the is having safe sex.)
I am beginning to feel like it may be okay if we allow this? however I wanted some opinions from other people to help me make my decision.
11 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoshould i let my 18 year old sleep in the same room with her bf?
My daughter has recently approached me asking if i would be comfortable to let her and her boyfriend sleep in the same room once they both turn 18. They are both 18 in october within 2 days of each other and have known each other for 11 years and have been going out for about a year now, i trust her and i trust him. I know that they are both sexually active as she has told me this. (they have only been active with each other). I have ensured that she is on the pill and they use contraception and we have had the "sex talk". Once they are 18 they are technically legal, but im not sure i feel comfortable. At the moment he stays over twice a week in separate rooms (my son's room is in between theirs). She has told me that the reason she wants to stay in the same room is just to cuddle and feel "all warm and cozy". Im starting to think that there isnt much reason not to let them, because they have sex whether they are in the same room or not, they are protected, they are in love, and just want to be with each other . So what should i do, should i start letting them?
5 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships9 years agoshould i let my 18 year old sleep in the same room with her bf?
My daughter has recently approached me asking if i would be comfortable to let her and her boyfriend sleep in the same room once they both turn 18. They are both 18 in october within 2 days of each other and have known each other for 11 years and have been going out for about a year now, i trust her and i trust him. I know that they are both sexually active as she has told me this. (they have only been active with each other). I have ensured that she is on the pill and they use contraception and we have had the "sex talk". Once they are 18 they are technically legal, but im not sure i feel comfortable. At the moment he stays over twice a week in separate rooms (my son's room is in between theirs). She has told me that the reason she wants to stay in the same room is just to cuddle and feel "all warm and cozy". Im starting to think that there isnt much reason not to let them, because they have sex whether they are in the same room or not, they are protected, they are in love, and just want to be with each other . So what should i do, should i start letting them?
8 AnswersParenting9 years agoshould i let my 18 year old sleep in the same room with her bf?
My daughter has recently approached me asking if i would be comfortable to let her and her boyfriend sleep in the same room once they both turn 18. They are both 18 in october within 2 days of each other and have known each other for 11 years and have been going out for about a year now, i trust her and i trust him. I know that they are both sexually active as she has told me this. (they have only been active with each other). I have ensured that she is on the pill and they use contraception and we have had the "sex talk". Once they are 18 they are technically legal, but im not sure i feel comfortable. At the moment he stays over twice a week in separate rooms (my son's room is in between theirs). She has told me that the reason she wants to stay in the same room is just to cuddle and feel "all warm and cozy". Im starting to think that there isnt much reason not to let them, because they have sex whether they are in the same room or not, they are protected, they are in love, and just want to be with each other . So what should i do, should i start letting them?
5 AnswersTeen & Preteen9 years agoholiday boyfriend problems?
so my bf and i are on uni holidays for a few weeks and planned a 4 day trip with a group of friends, and we got really excited about it but were upset when it got cancelled, decided to just make our own fun for the few days... but just today he told me that he is going on a different trip with 7 other people.. for 6 days.. but i wasn't invited. I'm actually good friends with these people as well, even though they were originally all his friends. so I'm upset, but he was so excited about it that i just pretended i was excited for him.. :/ what should i do.. ?
and he is not the type of guy to cheat so I'm not worried about that. but i am frustrated because i know he is going to smoke weed cause one of his friends in particular does and.. has kinda persuaded everyone else to... and he knows that i HATE it!! he doesn't do it often.. but this week will be full of it.. i don't want to say anything because i don't want to be the "nagging gf" but at the same time i want to tell him it annoys me :(
1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years agobf holiday without me?
so my bf and i had planned a trip / mini holiday for four days with some friends.. and we got all excited for weeks, and i was just excited to get out of the house and do something.. but then some people pulled out and he didn't want to go anymore, so i didn't want to if he wasn't going. So then i was thinking, thats okay we can just hang out for a fews days and make our own fun, and agreed. but now he is going away for a whole week with 7 other people (guys and girls).. and i wasn't invited. so now I'm left at home alone while everyone is out having a great time. I pretended i was excited for him because he really wanted to go.. but I'm so cut that i wasn't invited.. and we had been planning this week together for ages! What should i do?
9 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years agoIm stuck.. who should i pick?
im in a terrible terrible position here.... ahhhh
ok so there are two guys and they both like me:
1. I have known him my whole life pretty much, and we went out a few years back, but we broke up due to an external family reason and i was i just couldnt deal with having a bf at that time. But its been two years and we stayed good friends, but for the past two months, we've been talking more and more again, and he is the nicest sweetest guy i know and he is so cute :) and he has always liked me, but he is so shy.. so things go.. quite slow haha. And i really like him and i can see us staying together for a long time :)
2. Now you know those guys that you see and they are your dream guy that you have had a crush on for the longest time,, but at the same time its like, "oh he is too good for me, he will never like me back" well this is guy number two, we have been friends for a while but just yesterday he asked me out... i said yes.... but i couldnt help feeling super guilty saying yes to that, but i thought i might as well say yes and i can always make up an excuse later depending on what i decide
So here is the problem, do i go out with my dream guy, the one that i have had a crush on for ages? or do i go out with someone that i have got to know well and that i can trust?
i hate hurting peoples feelings, and they are both my friends, like omg ?!?! what would you do?
15 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years agoWhat are the worst names?
ok so the other day i came across someone with the name Bendaguz Fitzgerald.. i would have to say.. that is one of the worst names i have heard in a while haha
iv come across some other bad ones too
(Girl)
Gertrude
Mildred
Eugenia
(boy)
Humphrey
Harold
Douglass
what are your bottom three names for girls and boys ?
(not trying to offend anyone, and i am sorry of those are your names but that is just my taste and im just interested to see what everyone else comes up with) :)
7 AnswersBaby Names10 years agorate these girl names :)?
So im pregnant and it may be a girl, but we are not sure, but we are trying to pick out some girl names so this is what we have come up with: and the middle name will either be Skye, Rose or Mae
could you please rate these out of 10 or something and say if you like them or not and what your favourites are thanks :)
Montana (Monti)
Jasmine (Jass/jassy)
Hazel
Maci
Kira
Kelsie
Kiara
Kara
Maya (pronounced My-Ya)
Skylar
Nina
Ava
Carlie
Demi
any possible sibling set for the futur?
23 AnswersBaby Names10 years agorate these baby boy names?
I am pregnant and we think it is a boy so we have come up with a few names: Could you please rate them out of 10, and say if you like them or not, thank youu :)
Tristan Tyler
Riley Hunter / Riley Miles
Jayden Ryder
Jace Tyler / Jace Cooper
Jake Ryan / Jake Archer
Tylan Carter (we just recently heard the name Tylan, still undecided because its so different, what do you think, too strange?)
We like the names
Tanner, Ryder and Lucas but cant find any middle names to go with them
we are open to any other suggestions too, so feel free to recommend any other names
16 AnswersBaby Names10 years ago