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I had sex with my brother-in-law. What do I do?
About a fortnight ago we were on this vacation upstate (me, my wife, her sister and her sister's husband that is). My wife's sister's husband (I'll call him B) and I had met before and were close friends long before this trip. The third night in the two girls decided to hit the town, but neither me or B were interested in that so we stayed behind. We watched some TV, drank some beer and got to talking. The conversation got to a weird place eventually though, starting with some "What if" questions and confessions of mutual attraction. Somehow (I still don't know how) we convinced each other to have sex with one another. When it was over the gravity of the situation had hit us and we swore we'd keep it from the girls. They got home around sunrise and were none the wiser.
But while B seems to be doing okay I still feel just as sick over this as the day it happened. I want and don't want to tell her at the same time. Should I? And if I do will it make me feel even a little better?
2 Answers
- Styl LetoLv 69 years agoFavorite Answer
If you want to cause a whole bunch of trouble in your marriage, go ahead. But personally, that's a secret I'd take to the grave. And if your BIL ever blabs, accuse him of being the biggest liar you've ever known.
- 9 years ago
I am not one for dishonesty, but this could cause some serious problems if you guys are found out. I would take a vow of silence and not mention it, unless you want your life to be ruined (no offense). I would also discontinue any more sexual contact with "B".