Teens: I need some help big time?

Don't say that! I'm sure you have more to live for than just one guy. I think you should just give each other a break and see how it goes. Maybe all you guys need is time away from each other to figure things out. And if things don't work out the way you want them, then i suggest move on. Find someone better. I hope everything goes well! I also agree with Jackaroo2 I think you should apologize the way you reacted, and maybe he will apologize too and see how that goes.

I would apologize to him, try to do it in person. Apologize for insulting his family and tell him how you felt when he called you a pessismis. Try to make sure the situation is calm and controlled. if you feel like your getting angry or very upset. Take a minute to breathe before anyone says anything else. This is what i do when i get in fights with my boyfriend and this works for us.

you should apologize for reacting the way you did when he called you a pessimist. maybe you don't realize the way you act around him and that's what he was trying to tell you. he just made it blunt.

if he repeatedly insults you that way when you know you are changing your behavior, then there is a problem. but that probably won't happen.

apologize for insulting his family.

That's what i would do.

im not trying to be rude but your the one who cut to deep, his family had nothing to do with this.

you need to apologize to him, whether he takes you back is his decision, and explain to him why what he said made you so angry