why do girls pick the asshole over the nice guy?

You are a convenient fool.

Just bein brutally honest.She knows how you feel & comes to you between dix b'cuz she knows you'll be there as her band-aid.

Heres a clue...shes not your friend.Friends treat each other with RESPECT.You are her DOORMAT

EDIT-I just saw your added details.

Honestly,does her behaviour MAKE you ANYTHING?Its your choice how you want to feel.I would guess anger isnt your primary emotion,either.I think you get hurt,but anger is more comfortable,so thats how you deal with the pain.It sucks,budz.

You could tell her how you feel(again),but i would simply forget her & find a someone else

Wow, I have a 29 year old, 27 year old, and an 18 year old and all the boys say the same exact thing. A lot of girls are like that. They think if they get the bad boy they can fix them. Never. Plus, the girls like the challenge. Once they get that bad boy they feel powerful and high five each other. Then, they get a broken heart because they douchbad proves himself...he really is a douchbag. The girls ego gets crushed so she turns to the nice guy to give her her confindence back...then the nice guy gets **** on. best thing for you to do is play a little harder to get. Don't become a douchbad, just don't be so accomodating and rush in to save her. Let her see what it would be without you.

If you had ever meant anything to her, she would not continually go to any guy but you. You would think that she would at least give you a chance if you were nice to her, and the other guys weren't, but, sadly, she has no interest in you, and so she is just taking advantage of you and your feelings for her. She's going to keep coming back to you to take her out to eat, and to compliment her when she does something wrong, or when she gets broken up with, but, afterwards, she's just going to leave to go find someone else.

It may be hard, but try to move on, and when you find someone worthwhile, you'll realize what you were missing out on by wasting your time on this girl, and her problems.

Classic friend zone.

You are at the point where you have to decide if you want to torture and limit yourself and stay her friend, or just move on. Maybe you should just ignore her for a while, make her realize what she will miss.

Whats funny is that through your rant, i could not even determine if you guys have sex or not. If you are talking her to hawaii and she is turing you down in the bedroom, then you need to walk now.

Open your eyes , thank god you ask this so someone like me can help you through this to make you realize that she's never going to change . I know you won't want to hear it but she is using you , while you waste your time and money on her she's always going to be with the next person . I don't think she knows what you're capable of . Even though I'm fourteen it seems like your the one she comes running after these d!cks dump her a$$ . Just think about it my advice is to get over her , but it's your life not mine ;) goodluck - kc

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I spent my life listening to my fathers advice, and was a nice guy. Cute girls were attracted to me initially and I would date them, then they'd dump me for other guys who were far less nice than I, and far less good looking. Could never figure it out. Bought lots of books on dating, seduction, pick-up ... mostly crap.

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We girls like going for the assholes because they know how to take charge of things like they will just go ahead and hold our had or kiss us,

But nice guys just stay nice and try to be real respectful its really good that yall are like that but sometimes you gotta be more assertive!

But maybe she is using you or she is just confused about you try asking her if she's confused or what? Or it could be she doesn't know what she wants.. hope this helps

No, she probably has low self esteem, which could be why she picks douch bags. And she might think she is not good enough. I had a similar situation and i went away for awhile. She relized that she likes me and missed me so much.

We got together.

Nice Girls Asshole

You know.. girls aren't the only one to do it.

Guys do it too- as much as we complain about girls picking idiots over the good ones- guys pick the dumb tramps, over the good ones as well.

It happens with everyone- straight, gay, whatever..