What would you do if someone cussed your kid out, while your out?

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So if you wasn't home an if your teens was. An your husband's friend gf called an said Hi is my bf their. An your son said no, an my parent's are not home either. An she say's well I know my bf is their. An he said no he is not. She says your a fckn liar, an you can tell him he can just stay their. You get home with your husband an your 15 yr. old is upset an says mom Andy's gf called asked if he was their. I said no an she called me a liar cussed me out. So I called the gf an went off on her. An my husband says I should have let him just talk to the friend about his gf. Well he would have sugar coated it. I was mad my son had no reason to lie. What would you have done?

Update:

My son was telling the truth. The girl did not believe him. Maybe I wasn't specific enough. Andy was not here, my son did tell the truth. She did not believe him an he was really upset. He was afraid.

Molly · Answer

You should be telling your son that straight up lieing is not nice appropriate or whatever, and there was no reason to lie. Ask him why in the world would he have done it. It's just making the other person such as Andy's girlfriend feel angry and mad, without him getting benefit. Its more like him getting a loss. So basically your son walked right into that problem. Now, what the girlfriend said wasn't very nice either. Cussing him out is not how to handle the situation. You may want to ask her why she asked if he was there, if she knew he was there. That doesnt make scence. 
        There is actually one possibilty that could be very likely in this situation. Your son may not like the girlfiend or Andy, and made this all up. He and Andy may have gotten into an agrument or maybe your son just doesnt like Andy or his girl. Consider all the possibilties.

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What would you do if someone cussed your kid out, while your out?

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