Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.
Trending News
Why do boys watch porn :-( ?
I've watched a video my boyfriend watched (he said it was the first time since we got together and it was only because he was really mad at me) but still, the girl is nothing like me - she is oriental, really skinny, doesnt share my style of dress, has a bolshy manner.
This really upset me because I feel I am the opposite, although I make an effort to look good/be sexy in the bedroom I usually wear white underwear and I pride my self on being quite sweet and having a classic style of dress.
Also although I have very slim arms/legs I have a full bust and my bum/tum aren't fat but they aren't uber toned. I have a couple of stretch marks where I grew quickly (I am 5ft9) and in the video they make reference to how she has no stretch marks :-(
Another thing that really upsets me is I know what awful circumstances can lead these girls to be in these videos - I nearly went into escorting etc. when I made the decision to start a new life away from my abusive childhood, but I fought hard to go to work and university.
I don't know why but this makes me feel even more upset, for the woman in the video as well. So I don't think it is just jealousy although I do admit that may play a part.
Anyone that can shed some light on how boys tick and whether either myself, him or both of us are not ready for a relationship/interested in the other etc. then please do. he also watched cartoon porn afterwards and read some erotic literature. He is 24 years old and I find this slightly odd but would appreciate others opinions on this as it is all something I know very little about. Thank youu :)
10 Answers
- ?Lv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
" rose " , if you know very well that guys generally like watching porn , why are you trying so hard to analyze this and insert youre own feelings and reasoning into whats not asked for ? thatd be like guys asking why girls half way kill themselves wearing high heels that half way cripple them !
guaranteed most girls dont enjoy watching porn , or wont watch it , but imagine me then trying very hard to get girls to accept watching porn ! thats similar to what youre doing ! so he likes watching porn , would you feel better if he didnt watch porn but cheated on you with a live girl instead ?
my last g friend hated the thought of me reading porn magazines and threw them out ! i went and found her with another dude watching a porn movie ,. and she wasnt even bothered at this double standard ! she then cheated on me with this guy , and went on to cheat on me with my best friend !
" one mans meat is another mans poison " so i dont have to approve of you only when youre tastes and likes are exactly the same as mine ! most guys dont like dolls and doll houses , most girls dont like wrestling , but its called " give and take " in a relationship !
- ?Lv 49 years ago
I think that you may be with the wrong guy.
I think in order for anybody to love you, you need to love yourself. Not all guys are into porn, some are perfectly happy with what they have at home, some like it, even some couples watch together.
Really this is all about personal preferences.
I think that if you find the things he does as odd, you need to look to a guy that you share the same interests in. You should never feel like 2nd best in a relationship in any circumstance.
Stop focusing on all that you think is wrong with you and focus on the good. Most women have stretch marks even the ones you see in these films, they are airbrushed to the max and made to look perfect when in truth nobody is.
We all have good features and ones we dont like, but flaws and all is what make people attractive for both men and women.
- EeeeeeeeeeeeeeLv 49 years ago
Honestly for him to show you a video like that is beyond disrespectful, with these women making comments as regards to stretchmarks when he knows you have them is unnacceptable. I think you can do better because he is exremely immature and insensitive, instead of trying to fix things when he's mad with you he shows you something that hurts your feelings, has you obsessing and now even writing on here about it. I think you should talk to him about the way you feel and stress how hurtful it is and if the shoe was on the other foot how would he like it if you compared his physic to another mans. If he doesn't change, leave him because he could take insults to further, higher levels in the future.
Good luck x
- 9 years ago
I, being a girl myself, have no idea. But I can say a few things:
1, Boys are idiots.
Maybe that helps? I don't know, I'm sort of in a knot myself. Plus I'm really tired, my sleeping schedule is horrendous.
2, It sounds like your worried about your body. Don't be! My tummy is a war drum! I still have quite the amount of baby fat, I'm not growing and it's taking to long or something.
3, I do know that boys don't like it when girls call themselves fat or worry about their weight and such. Some of them don't mind it, but most think it's irritating.
- How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
- ?Lv 79 years ago
Porn is just a tool for masturbation.
Guys aren't necessarily attracted to the women in porn, its what they are doing that is the turn on.
Its all about the fantasy, and we use it to get off.
Here is something else for you to think about: gay porn. There are no women, only men. I watch a lot of twink porn, its what gets me off harder and faster than anything else.
- ?Lv 49 years ago
A lot, if not most, guys watch porn. Guys are hypersexual in comparison to girls, and porn is hot people having hot sex. Young guys watch it, and old guys watch it. Don't compare yourself to the girls in the videos your man watches. It is no way a reflection on you or his opinions of you. It's really not a big deal at all, and I think you're blowing this out of proportion. If you don't want him to watch porn, then have sex with him more. Or watch it with him. Porn is awesome.
- 9 years ago
Dont change yourself based on what you saw in a porn. personally I watch porn where bodybuilder girls dominate small guys, but if I were dating a skinny girl, i wouldnt make her change to be like them.
- 9 years ago
if you want to have sex with ur boy friend if that is what you want then don't do anything just be urself boys the las that was on the movie is on camera so they can do anything to make her have no strech marks so tell that to ur man
- 9 years ago
Because us men are horny b@stards thats why. We need casual sex but I am not saying to F him. If he masturbates isnt that better than him cheating on you?