giving oral to husband...sensitive gag reflex...advice?

Below are some links to some animated illustrations online that will hopefully give you some ideas. As a man I can tell you that the feel of deep throat is amazing. Your husband is one lucky man to have someone like you who is concerned about being able to figure this out for him. You're a very rare woman indeed.

I completely understand him wanting to watch since we guys are soooo visual and seeing you do this is incredible for him to watch. But he also needs to be flexible in helping you achieve this for him in a way that he'll be able to watch as well. Please take the time to look through these links and see what might work for you both. Consider showing him what you have in mind with these illustrations also if he would be open to looking at them. That would probably help a lot.

Here is a link to the overall fellatio section of the website: http://www.sexinfo101.com/fellatiopositions.shtml

The following are specific positions that I think would work very good for him to be able to watch as well as be more comfy for you:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/headrest.shtml

http://www.sexinfo101.com/jackhammer.shtml

This one my not be as comfy for you but if you'll shift your body to the right more (when looking at the animation) I think it would be a good one for you both:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/oraltherapy.shtml

Lastly I think this position would be the absolute best one for him to see a great show and for your throat to be in the absolute best position to accept him. This would be my pick.

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_throatswab.shtml

Please take the time to look through all of the examples as well as the rest of the website overall. I think you'll find it to be very informative and helpful.

Good luck and I hope this helps you!

Please get in touch if you'd like to discuss any of this in more detail.

If you know you're gonna be doing this, and you know you have a weak stomach, maybe skip the meal before this happens. Gagging is not much of problem, it's actually a turn on for a lot of guys nowadays, so long as you don't barf. You could try a gag reflex numbing spray. Or you could tell him either stick to what works or forget it, obviously it's better if you lay down.

Gag reflex is quite normal and it is not easy at all. It can be achieved with patience but honestly it is quite an over rated practice and there are many more ways to satisfy a partner then deep throating him.

Well you can lay flat out on the bed or table, so your head is at the edge and even with his penis and then your hubby will just kinda penetrate your mouth, i don't know if that's what your doing but i've heard that it might not make you gag, so its worth a shot.

Try to practice with your toothbrush, brushing your tongue back as far as you can go, do that daily. Eventually you might become desensitized and not have a gag reflex OR have such a strong gag reflex that you'll throw up. Each time you brush your tongue try to go back more and more each time.

Also, focus MORE on your breathing instead of " trying not to gag". Breath in really deep and breath out. Focus on that.

You don't have to deep throat him in order to suck out his cumm, you can just suck on the tip of his c0ck instead, and maybe go down a bit ( as much as you feel comfortable with). Do handjobs on him and when he is about to cumm then suck it out of him... or you can put his balls in your mouth and suck those while he masturbates and then you can suck out his cumm when he gets ready to cumm.

There are many other alternatives if you can't deep throat him and you have gag reflexes. Get creative :)

u should also try stroking while ur sucking it.my hubbie luvs wen im sucking him off n my lips r wrapped around his cock n my hand is caressing it at the same time also u need 2 go have ao much of it in ur mouth but hes still being stimulated frm top 2 bottom!also play with his balls while ur sucking.try jerking him off but licking it while ur doin it or jus suck on the head while.or hop on it n ride him then suck it again!!!also ur husband mite like if u take control n kinda make him lay the way where it works 4 u he should b happy either way cuz hes gonna b getting a happy ending anyway!!!!he aslo is bein a lil selfish ur trying 2 please him n not many women wld go 2 this lenght 2 please their mate so he needs 2 meet u half way!!also he can still kinda of c ya n try n b noisey while ur doin it n let him kno ur enjoyin doin it!tell him u luv sucking is big hard dick!!!! ask him if he likes it!!moan n slurp b very enthuastic the whole time but bottom line he has 2 meet u half way thats only rite!just remember use ur hand n mouth at the same time,play with his balls,make plenty of noise,n try n take charge of the positioning he mite like the take charge attitude!!!GOOD LUCK N PLZ LET US KNO HOW U MADE OUT!!!!I DNT HAVE A GAG REFLEXS ITS CRAZY BUY GOOD LUCK N DNT THINK BOUT THE GAG REFLEX JUS IM GONNA MAKE HIS TOES CURL CUZ IMMA SUCK HIS COCK SOOOOO GOOD B IN THE MOMENT NOT WAT MITE HAPPEN WIT THE GAGGING JUS CONCENTRATE ON PLEASURING UR HUBBIE MAKIN HIM EXPLODE IN UR MOUTH!!!!!

Swollow a Lot and focus on his penis. I had the same issue but now I focus more on my husbands stuff and my swollowing and it works

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YOU have to be comfortable. That's the deal. He can take it or leave it.