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Should I feel offended?
My boyfriend called me today and invited me over for dinner to have pizza. When I arrived there, his mother answered the door. (he lives with his mom) She told me she had gotten pizza and I was welcome to have some. My boyfriend was playing an online game and didn't even say hello. So I said to him in a playful voice.."Are you going to say hi??" He said he would come out in a minute.. while still playing his game. Anyway, after about 10 or 15 minutes of sitting on the couch feeling awkward I left.
I spend a lot of time over there and this happens frequently. It hurt my feelings that he invited me over and then didn't greet me and acted like I wasn't there. I have told him before how it makes me feel. Any advice on how I should handle this situation? Thank you!
5 Answers
- 9 years ago
Your boyfriend is the definition of an asshole who is taking full advantage of your kindness to him. Sometimes when your too generous and put yourself out there as too much of a goody goody individual there will be people like your boyfriend who will never respect your needs. His actions shows he really doesn't care about you. When I'm in a relationship with a women I love I will treat her with the up most respect. If he does this all the time you come over then you should probably leave this guy. The fact that he lives with his mom proves he is not a mature individual ready to move on with his life. You deserve better.
- MzCalypsoLv 79 years ago
Honey, if an online game is more important than you, you need a different boyfriend.
You can't handle the situation except by developing some self-respect and dumping this video addict. His behavior is NOT going to get better. He doesn't care about you, he's still some kind of 8-year-old playing games.
- LynnLv 79 years ago
He doesnt care about you or your feelings. Dont waste anymore time on this jerk. You life is composed of time units and he has used too many of your units as it is. Find a human being to be involved with. Why waste time with someone who throws bricks at your feelings and dignity. You may as well date a gorilla or something.
- Anonymous9 years ago
You definitely have the right to feel offended! He is not treating you right girl then you need to tell him that. Let him know he is hurting you, maybe even break down a little bit, do whatever you need to do to get the point across. You can do it!
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- 9 years ago
Sounds like he takes advantage of women...first his mother and now you.
Remember, your happiness is very important! And that's not being selfish. And YES, you defo have the right to be offended.
