I got rejected for being to nice. (What are your thoughts)?

Usually when a chick rejects you for being too nice, it is a BS excuse not to go out with you. They think that by using this load of crap excuse, it will get you off easy.

However, there are young ladies who like the bad boys. She may be one of them. If she would forsake a good guy for some asshole who will treat her like a receptacle, then she deserves what she gets. Her loss and not yours.

Another reason why you get dumped and rejected by the chick is because you didn't make your romantic intentions known earlier and got friend zoned as a result. When you meet a female that you are attracted to, you need to have an outcome in mind. Flirt her up, gage her interest and if you are feeling it, ask her out. If she won't have you for whatever reason, move on to the next young lady and stop wasting your time trying to get a female through platonic friendship.

If she legitimately is into jerks and is not into you for being "too nice" well then that's her loss... My theory is that girls who are attracted to assholes somewhere deep down feel as though they deserve to be treated badly themselves, stemming from some degree of self esteem issues....anyways lol if you still think its worth a shot, i'd suggest taking on "some" of the characteristics of the typical jerk without completely being a jerk....like make her come to you, play the jealousy card (only a little bit lol), basically make yourself desirable in her eyes and become a challenge..... this is your best bet at having a chance with her even if you've just been friendzoned haha good luck!

Nancy is a little weird..you should just leave it as it is.. Let her think that youre too nice, she'll get in a relationship with some jerk that will probably beat the snot out of her and she'll be like hmmm Nathan was nice I probably should date him

initially, by saying "Icwould date a woman i hit upon gruesome, only because of the fact the intercourse would nevertheless be good lol" is only as "superficial"--as you,out it--because of the fact the lady rejecting you for being gruesome. only saying. besides, this lady isn't incorrect for rejecting you in this foundation, in spite of the reality that she would have chosen a extra robust approach ni do no longer comprehend her facet of the story, perhaps she tried to permit you down undemanding, you does no longer hear, so she suggested that to finally run you off. perhaps she's only recommend. Who is typical with. yet human beings go with their friends in accordance with recognition, because of the fact it tells plenty approximately that guy or woman evolutionary-smart, yet I won't get into that. We decide one yet another in accordance with visual appeal every day, and admittedly, you would be able to desire to be initially fascinated in somebody to choose directly to be with them and get to renowned them. in any different case, what's the element? So,no, she's no longer superficial for this.

Maybe since you said that she is attracted to jerks, shes not used to you being a gentlemen. <- or however you spell it :P But maybe try not to be so clingy (even though you sound like your not obviously) to her. Then maybe she will warm up to you and you can be you :) But if you are not willing to change, maybe shes not the girl for you :)

Uh, if she said flat out that she is attracted to jerks, be glad you didn't work out.

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