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What would you do if you found out someone you love...?

What would you do if you found out through a 3rd party, that someone you love with all your heart, did something horrific years ago, when they were in their teens? I told him 'I got a weird message' and told him what it was. He said the person in question was a weirdo, but never denied the accusation. Now...I don't know how to feel.

Update:

It kind of depends on what 'teen' age he was when this happened, as to how horrific this was. It's terrible no matter what, but 13 would be far more forgivable than 17. I love this man. We've been married for 5 years, and we have a beautiful child. I feel like I've been kicked in the gut. It happened 35 years ago and I don't know if I even know him, now.

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  • Rain
    Lv 6
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It would depend on what the "horrific" thing was. Some things are unforgivable while others can be forgiven. Have him tell you his side of the story first. Then deal with the emotions. You need to remember that there are always at least three sides to a story, his truth, the other persons truth and then the real truth.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    no way to answer with out more information for instance what did he do ? How long ago? how solid is the 3rd party all have bearing on the question

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Confused. That's something only you two can figure out and handle, it's more personal than just a simple answer.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    I think that you are very sensible. Now you should think about your happiness.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    If i found someone loves me.........i love him as much as i can do...and never let him go! haha....i'm really :D

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