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does it hurt when we have first time phisical sex?

My boyfriend is well built. Tall and handsome too. But i fear i am not capable to handle him when if anytime we were involved physically. Last evening he was in hi shorts and aroused. I saw her **** and was really got frightened. It was a huge one.He asked me to touch that. it was solid and soft. really big. Now I hv a fear that it will hurt me. I refused last evening but some day i hv to tackle the situation. Girls how you handled you man first time with big tool?

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  • renuka
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Sweety confront him and admit that you're feeling a little nervous. It'll make him aware of your feelings and will allow for a more honest, open experience. He'll be conscious of what he's doing with you and will make you feel more comfortable. Plus, it's flattering to him if you tell him that you think he's that big. Guaranteed he'll be nice to you.

    Now on your side please be relax. Forget every thing and concentate on the holy act you are going to do without thinking the size. Have good forplay. It is not going to kill you. You will have some pain and be prepare to accept it whole heartedly. Pain will be for the first time but later on full of joys and enjoyment. See it and enjoy it. Every girl is doing this act first time in life only once. Yes you are lucky that you are going to handle big tool.

  • Paulh
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Ladies, keep in mind you can deliver a baby out of your vagina with a head the size of a prince melon. You can definitely accommodate a large member. My advise would be to take it slow with him. Many men have a tendency just to shove it in an and shove it up and down. How about foreplay? Play with it and lick it? Have you on top.

    And don't worry, he cant break you.

  • 9 years ago

    Lots of foreplay, lots of lube, and just keep trying.

    lt's not going to be so easy the first little bit, but it will

    get better. Just remember, just about every man fits

    every woman. Besides, how many pe-nises have you

    seen? Really? He may be just on the large side, and not

    overly huge, and you are worrying needlessly.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    very simple sweety, in the begining, it gives the pain of negativness but after some time when ur body is tuned up with ur act, it gives the pain in positive ness. I hope U understand it well.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Take it slowly. Don't rush things. The vagina is built to take a beating but too much too soon can cause problems.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    take it slow make sure u r really ready then ask him to do it slowly..try to relax your muscles

    it will feel like pressure but after a few times it will feel amazing and u will wish he was even bigger because your thing will stretch with time

  • virgod
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    I had married my first man, but happy shagging to you! Not to worry, 10-20 men later your vagina would be large enough to accommodate a log. lol

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Well let him make you wet an flowing and then it is easy to enter.

  • 9 years ago

    no problem sab chalta hai kerlo koi baat nahi maja aata hai

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