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How to seduce/wake up my sleepy boyfriend!?
I am a 20 year old girl and have been together with my 22 year old boyfriend for more than 6 months. We have not yet had sex because I've been saving myself but lately (meaning ever since the 4th month of being together) I've felt myself ready to go all the way. I am very in tune with my body and sexually creative so sex for me doesn't just mean penis in vagina, it also means heavy petting & touch, lots of kissing. but there's a little issue, which leads me to my question..
I just went to his house to stay for 3 days and we hadn't seen each other for a month before then. The first night, he and I were in bed together kissing but after like 2 minutes he wanted to have sex but physically I just wasnt turned on enough. I like to actually feel like he wants me and kiss me all over my body and spend at least 15-20 minutes on foreplay, itself. I even let him try to put it in but it just wouldnt go in. I told him that I'd like to spend more time on foreplay.. and also not just to rip off my panties right away. I like to be teased too and prolong it as much as possible because i like to be really wet.. and he said "okay, we can do that" but soon after some kissing, he just fell asleep while i was horny wanting more of him. In the morning I started kissing him rubbing my body against him and stuff but he was soo in tune with his sleep he just turned over and didnt even touch me. The following two nights were even worse because he just went straight to sleep with his arm around me, of course, but i'd try to get him in the mood by kissing him and straddling him but he just woke up and one of the times i tried to get him in the mood he actually told me to stop it.
He sleeps WAYYY too much and has more of a drive for snoring than a drive for intimacy with me. He's a great bf in every other way. If that weren't the case, I wouldn't be with him given this annoying situation. I want to have a hot night of it all.. the touching, the kissing, the mutual oral sex, fingering, handjobs, and when we are BOTH sexually craving each other (which means when im wet not just when he's hard) go all the way.. but seeing as how he gives up so easily and WONT wake up for me at all once he's asleep, this looks like it'll be impossible for me.
My question is are there any ideas of what I could do to seduce him once he's sleepy that will be more effective in getting him in the mood to not just attempt having sex with me in 5 minutes but really have the appetite to get me off in bed?? It's really off-putting when I'm really horny and have a guy I'm wildly attracted to right in bed with me and he just has no energy to do anything. What can I do?? What can I change to make him crave me again? I'm willing 24/7.. I send him sexy texts.. he's so bland and I just want to know what I can do to pull out the freaky side of him that will allow him to forget about sleep!! He sleeps wayy too much !!!!!
Re, if I knew the answer to this I 1) wouldn't be asking this on yahoo answers and 2) probably too busy getting it on.
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- ?Lv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
Ok, this question is too long and some people may get tired of reading all this redundant stuff. It's better if you ask a question be straight to the point. Well that being said.
BE CREATIVE!
Get to know your boyfriend better ask about his fetishes maybe he likes you to dress up sexy.
Put on make up not saying you have to do it all the time but for special occasion. You can't expect him to feel anything if you don't change yourself. Just think of it this way, you been trying to seduce him but it's not working maybe try freshening a bit.
Be confident with yourself, men love girls with confidence, or at least most men are but don't try to look egotistic and overly confident that may be a turn off.
Be happy with yourself
Compliment your boyfriend tell him he's been looking sexy and maybe stimulate his self confidence to try to seduce you.
Don't rush it, try to be nice and slow if you work it too fast he may be feel agitated and be overly stimulated.
Smell nice for your boyfriend.
Brush your teeth take care of your personal hygiene.
Ok i know i said a lot this is not a full proof way to work but these are some advice that may successfully excite or arouse your boyfriend.
- 5 years ago
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- Anonymous9 years ago
Something is wrong. The best thing to do is ask him... If your willing and ready and he's not responding then something is wrong. Men want sex all the time! My boyfriend operates with 2 maybe 3 hours of sleep and he is always in the mood. If all else fails try sexy costume and catch him be surprise...
- Anonymous9 years ago
When you seduce him try grabbing his d*** stroke it and get him turned on then get on top of him grind on him a little then get off to get him on top of you. Start touching yourself in front of him. Like just rub your hands up and down your body then grab his hand and get him to feel all over you. This all got me in the mood so good luck
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- 9 years ago
He's gay or doesn't find you attractive.
I'll tell you what, why don't you send me some pictures of yourself and I might be able to help you out in that department ;)
Source(s): "This situation has more smoke and mirrors than a strip club locker room" -Max Payne - Anonymous9 years ago
You know the answer to this.