Is it gay for 2 guys to cuddle on the couch? Please read all?

no i get what you're coming from. its not gay at all. in fact me and my straight friend hug, cuddle (privately of course because of bigoted people) its because were really close friends. straight girls cuddle each other without it being sexually why cant guys?

to answer your question i dont think its gay at all, as long as its not sexual its totally fine and i speak this from experience

Gay Cuddle

Gay Couch

Okay imma make this quick so listen.

1.) The guys is FULL OF SH*T complete denial way obvious

2.) "Dont tell me I should be cuddling with my bf we havent been together long" Da f*ck man? How long have you known this guy? Obviously if cuddling seems strange i would say not long. You wanna cuddle with your friend you've known for years vs a dude you've been together with 2 weeks and probably known all together mmm 3 weeks? You wanna cuddle with your friend because you've known him a long time and had time to develop strong feelings for him.

Now here's what you need to do you have two options. 1.) get your sh*t together with your bf which of course things probably won't work because for all you know this guy could be cheating on you. You've no clue who the hell he is. Or 2.) break up with this new guy and confront your friend, no I don't mean sit down and have tea and chat I mean get off your @ss and kiss him.

Now judging from the way he acted over the cuddling hes likely to react poorly to the kiss and probably freak out. At this point you gotta let the dude do what the guys gotta do. He'll either give in to his emotions or be a closeted chicken sh*t about it. If hes gonna stay in the closet then hey fine that his hell to deal with not yours.

Then there's always the possibility he will react on his feelings for you and will just give in and all shall go well. If not then hey theres better people out there. So I know this is tough, but its a very all or nothing situation your either going to walk out of this very happy with your new bf...or your going to be hanging out with mister vodka for the night ready to finish it off which imo isn't all that bad either LOL no, but if things do go to sh*t keep your head up you don't need this sh*t lots of good guys out there just stay positive and don't let anyone get you down.

Keep in mind though if things go badly its not exactly over cause your friend could very easily get things sorted in his head and come back. If not as i said no worries better people exist this guys just a b*tch chicken sh*t who's too scared to accept his own feelings. There are a lot of people out there who arent cowards like this guy. Which again who knows he could get his sh*t together if not its not your problem.

Just tell him it's platonic and nothing sexual. If he did it once, what's his problem continuing? Unless he's insecure with his own sexuality.

It's only gay if the c0cks touch. If the c0cks don't touch. It's not gay.

It's not gay at all.