Chris

So recently my 2003 Pontiac Grand AM GT has been running hot and throwing up coolant. I drove to work and the car was running a little hotter then usual but nothing that would make me freak out. As I was leaving (5 hours later) there was a puddle of coolant under my reservoir. I filled it up with what coolant I had (a little less then half a carton) and drove to the gas station to pick up more. I drove my 30 minute drive home and my car stayed at its normal temp and when I turned off the car no coolant was thrown up.

What's going on? Is it a blown head gasket like I fear? I don't have any white smoke coming out of the exhaust or any coolant in the oil. Is my thermostat closed? I'm very confused

So tonight my boyfriend and I were hanging out at his apartment in his room. It was 2 in the morning so we were about to call it a night but his roommate knocked on the door asking if we wanted to hangout with their party they has going on. He said no, but had to go to the bathroom so he went out. He came back and asked if I wante to hang out with them. I said no cause I was tired but he wanted to so being a good boyfriend I til him to go hangout with him, but secretly I didn't want him too. I want him to stay and fall asleep with me. He then left me all alone in his room to hangout with his roommate and his other friends.

I know I told him to hangout with the party but I still feel like he should have stayed with me. I didn't know anyone at this party and didn't feel like partying so I didn't wanna deal with it. I was hoping that he would think of me and stay with me but he don't and I was really angry about. Should I be?

I'm thinking of getting a haircut soon and I'm not sure what to get. I want to get it cut short cause it's almost summer and long hair is horrible in the unbearable heat. I was thinking of something like this but I'm not sure if I could pull it off

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Here are some pics of me

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I'm just not sure if I could pull that off cause I have a big fore head with a little bit of a receding hair line on the sides. What do you guys?

Ok, so for the past couple weeks I've noticed something very odd. When ever my boyfriend hangs out with one of his friends and doesn't spend time with me I get angry. I don't know why, I just do. Almost like "Why are you hanging out with them and not me?" even though we see each other a lot. Anyone else go through that?

So, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months now. I love him and he loves me and all that good stuff. Now this is my first real relationship so I'm still trying to figure all this out.

The other night I was texting him like I normally do. He always hangs out with his friend Daniel so I told him to text when he's home cause I don't want to take away time from his friends. This night he told me he wanted to text because he missed me. I told him ok as long as he didn't take an hour to respond like he does when he's with Daniel. He said he wouldn't but after a few texts he took over an hour to respond. He owned up and said he would text me when he got home.

It had been about 2 hours and I had to go to bed so I texted him goodnight and that I loved him like I normally do. The next morning I hadn't gotten a goodnight message from him. He always says goodnight to me, and should have especially since he said he could text me when he clearly couldn't. He then texted me at 3 in the afternoon like nothing happened.

Am I overreacting to this, or should I be mad? I feel a little hurt seeing as how for one he choose his friend over me and couldn't even text me back at a decent time, then he didn't even say goodnight to me like he always does. Any ideas?

So, me and my boyfriend started having sex about a month ago. We've done it a few times and everytime he's bottomed. I've always seen myself as a top but he wants to try topping. I'm interested to try bottoming and I love him so I told him we'd try it next time. The thing is I'm afraid.

I know that the first time you bottom, it hurts like hell. Is there any sort of thing that I should do to numb the pain or should I just power through it? I really do love him and he said he'd be gentle so I want to try it but I'm just afraid. Any help would be awesome

Please read the full situation before answering. Me and my friend Jordan have been best friends for years now. I am closer to him than my own brother and he's told me that he's closer to me than his girlfriend. We hug in public and even sometimes I'll kiss him goodbye (on the cheek of course). He knows I'm bi and is totally accepting of it and he is straight. I am currently dating a guy but its only been for about 2 weeks now. We're both in a band and on road trips to different citys for shows he likes to lay his head on my leg while I put my arm around him because its more comfortable then trying to sleep sitting up. The other day we were watching Top Gun at his house and we were both sitting on the couch. I was getting tired so I laid my head on his shoulder and he lifted his arm up, let me put my head on his chest and wrapped his arm around me. The next day I asked him if we could cuddle more often cause it was really relaxing for me but he said no cause he thinks its really gay.

Now before you guys start saying that I should be cuddling with my boyfriend we've only been dating for 2 weeks. I don't know him really well and don't think that I'm comfortable doing that yet. When me and Jordan cuddle its like a big brother holding his little brother. It just feels safe. I can understand where he's coming from but I don't think of it in the gay sense, just as in the friend comforting a friend way. So do you guys think what we are doing is Gay? And if not, how can I show him that its not gay? Thanks for reading and for the answers!

My band has quite a few shows coming up, especially some opening for national touring acts, and we want to look more legit by coming out to a intro tape that plays over the PA while we walk on stage. I was wondering how venues usually go about doing that? Should I bring in a CD with the intro on it or can I just bring in my iPod and just have them plug that in? I have emailed the venue but they are notorious for taking forever to get back to me. Obviously I would like to hear from musicians or people who have experience but anyone is welcome to answer. Thanks guys!

Alright, so I've been openly Bi for a very long time now. I think I'm bi because I've had girlfriends in the past, watch straight porn, and have had sex with girls before. Tonight this girl at my work invited me back to her house. We ended up having sex but for whatever reason I couldn't "get it up". I tried explaining that it wasn't her and that I think I just might be gay. I told her sorry and left. On the way home she texted me saying I me saying I made her feel horrible about herself and that we shouldn't speak anymore. I love her to death as a friend but just really didn't want to have sex with her. Not to mention I'm not a big fan of one night stands, it's hard for me to get off when it's not someone I see like that. So what should I do? I love this girl but just not like that. Also I'm not sure if I'm fully gay or not. Help please?

Ok, so last night me and one of my friends (lets call her A) were hanging out drinking. Not getting wasted but just unwinding. We work at the same place and we got on the subject of sex. I told her that I had sex with a co-worker (lets call her B) and she flipped out. She told me to get out of her house and now she says to never talk to her again. I don't understand why shes so pissed off. I knew B before A did and its not like we did anything wrong, it was just a one time thing. Am I missing something here or am I in right? I'm asking this here because you guys know more about relationships than any other category. Thanks guys, help me out!

Help please?

I need help with my sociology of religion homework, please?

I need this for my Sociology of Religion class please

Ok, so there is guy named Rob. He's a friend of one of my best friends Ben and he's really cute. Ben told me a little about him and he seems like a very sweet guy. I told him to tell him I'm interested so a few days after wards I added him on Facebook. Now comes the hard part. I can't seem to gather the courage to talk to him. I added him so I figured I should be the one to make the first move. Every time I see him online I want to click and say something but I just get really nervous cause he's super cute and might just think I'm a creep. So, my question is how do I strike up a conversation without being totally lame. I don't want to say "Hey, whats up" cause that's boring and tacky. How can I strike up a conversation and kinda be smooth? lol Thanks guys and gals!

First off, this isn't Chris. My name is Jordan and he's letting me use his account to ask a question.

So, I'm straight and have a girlfriend. One of my best friends, Alex is gay and open about it. We've been best friends for a very long time and hang out all the time. One day, we were hanging out and we somehow got on the subject of giving head. He said he had only had given it one time and really wanted to try giving it to me. I consider myself straight but have had a few gay thoughts so I'm kind of curious. He said it would be no strings attached and my GF would never find out. My question to you guys is should I let him do it? I'm not completely against it but it does seem weird. What do you guys think?

Ok, so I'm an openly bi 18 year old living in Cincinnati, Ohio. I have lots of friends but none of them are BI or gay so whats a good place to meet bi and gay guys? I'd like to avoid bars because most of those guys are only looking for one thing and I'd rather find a guy who wants to have a committed relationship. So, help me out please, whats a good place?

Ok, so for the last few days I have been feeling very suicidal. I'm basically failing college right now and every single day my dad comes home to yell at me about how I'm not trying hard enough even though I put hours of work in. I am flat broke even though I have a job. I'm in a band that I love but consumes all of my money leaving me with nothing. I cant stand living with my dad anymore but I cant move out because I don't have any money. I've also never been in a relationship. I want to be so bad but being gay makes it really hard when you live in southern Ohio. All my friends are supportive of me but I don't know one single gay guy. Not one! All of my friends are in relationships and happy while here I am crying in my room because no one cares about me. I don't know what to do anymore, its all piling up and I cant take anymore of it. Can anyone please help me? Please?

So, one of my friends (lets call him Austin) came up to me the other day and said he had a a dream. In his dream him and his friend (lets call him Alec) were hanging out at his house and were wrestling. Once they stopped wrestling Alec climbed on top of Austin and started giving him a BJ. Austin woke up and realized he had a wet dream. Austin came up to me and asked me if I thought he was gay. He told me in his dream it felt really good and he really liked it.

I said that I don't think he's gay because a BJ is a BJ, no matter who its from and it feels good. What do you think? Is he gay just because he had a dream where he got a BJ from his friend and really liked it? All answers appreciated!

Ok, so Mayhem festival was just announced today and the Line up is...

Main Stage

Disturbed

Godsmack

Megadeth

Mahine Head

Trivium

In Flames

They annoucned that Machine Head/Trivium/In Flames are all gonna be rotating slots on the main stage. Can anyone tell me what that means? Does that mean all bands will play on the main stage but the line up will be different in every city or does that mean one band will be on the mainstage and the other two will be on side stages? Someone help...

Ok, so Im 17, Bi, and have a crush on one of my good friends. We've been friends for a really long time, since preschool, and I really love him as a best friend, but kinda want to be more then friends. The other day, we were texting and he asked me how my love life was going, so I told him I liked someone, he asked who, and I gathered the strength to say him, he said he was kinda shocked and didnt know what to say, and I said tell me how you feel, and he responded with this message.

"Um... Well im not gay or bi if you ever thought or think I am... but, well you never know lol we could be at a party or drunk in college, stuff may happen lol... and you are an awesome dude, dont let anyone tell you otherwise... and if I ever want to do something with a guy you'd be the first one to know... You just never know when it may happen Chris... But I still love you :-D"

So, im wondering what this means, should I keep trying to date him or should I give up and move on? I really like him, and can totally see us dating, cause he doesnt act straight at all and has never had a girlfriend. Should I keep flirting with him, or keep it as a just friends relationship?