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Am I overreacting to this?
So tonight my boyfriend and I were hanging out at his apartment in his room. It was 2 in the morning so we were about to call it a night but his roommate knocked on the door asking if we wanted to hangout with their party they has going on. He said no, but had to go to the bathroom so he went out. He came back and asked if I wante to hang out with them. I said no cause I was tired but he wanted to so being a good boyfriend I til him to go hangout with him, but secretly I didn't want him too. I want him to stay and fall asleep with me. He then left me all alone in his room to hangout with his roommate and his other friends.
I know I told him to hangout with the party but I still feel like he should have stayed with me. I didn't know anyone at this party and didn't feel like partying so I didn't wanna deal with it. I was hoping that he would think of me and stay with me but he don't and I was really angry about. Should I be?
3 Answers
- Anonymous8 years ago
Are you mad at him for not being psychic? Or are you mad because he took what you said as truth and assumed you were being honest? Yeah...it sounds like you are overreacting. It also sounds like you are being really immature and unrealistic and like you need to learn to communicate with other people better.
If you want vanilla ice cream and you ask for chocolate is it fair to get mad when you get chocolate? Do you get mad at the person at the counter and say, "I was hoping you would give me vanilla even though I said chocolate. You should have known that!"? Does that make sense? Well. that is pretty much what you are doing to your man and you probably would not like someone to act this way toward you.
So next time you want, don't want, like or dislike something, SPEAK UP AND SAY IT! If you wanted your man to stay you should have grabbed him and said, "Can you stay here instead?" and I am sure he would have. Also, learn to say how you feel when the time is right. If you say something is okay then it isn't, this is on YOU not the other person. Basically, you need to be responsible for your own choices and your own feelings. I hope this makes sense. Best of luck!
Source(s): I had an ex who would do crap like this....he would say one thing and do something else....eventually I just got SICK of the constant guessing game and I left! - Ovaltine JenkinsLv 78 years ago
You aren't the same person you can't expect your wants to be his wants. If you told him he could go, that's on you. Next time say what's on your mind. But it's only a party... You'll have plenty of nights to fall asleep together. Every couple needs their separate time
