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My first time bottoming?
So, me and my boyfriend started having sex about a month ago. We've done it a few times and everytime he's bottomed. I've always seen myself as a top but he wants to try topping. I'm interested to try bottoming and I love him so I told him we'd try it next time. The thing is I'm afraid.
I know that the first time you bottom, it hurts like hell. Is there any sort of thing that I should do to numb the pain or should I just power through it? I really do love him and he said he'd be gentle so I want to try it but I'm just afraid. Any help would be awesome
3 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
Lots and lots of lube. And you be in control of the penetration. And keep putting lube on. Not just at the beginning. I was on all four and i showing backed into him while he continued to keep putting lube on. The pain seriously went away 30 seconds after he got it all in.
- ?Lv 68 years ago
I would suggest you riding him, that way, you are in control of how fast the first few strokes are. Lots of lube and condom. Yup, there will be pain, but deep breaths and let yourself relax as you are sinking down onto him.
- 8 years ago
Just think, if he took it so can you. It doesn't rip you apart, but it gives an awful burning sensation at first, and once desensitized it becomes better. Try and practise with objects or fingers first. The trick is to relax your anal sphincter enough.
Source(s): It'll make you appreciate what your boyfriend does for you.
