What do you think of what he said?

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Ok, so Im 17, Bi, and have a crush on one of my good friends. We've been friends for a really long time, since preschool, and I really love him as a best friend, but kinda want to be more then friends. The other day, we were texting and he asked me how my love life was going, so I told him I liked someone, he asked who, and I gathered the strength to say him, he said he was kinda shocked and didnt know what to say, and I said tell me how you feel, and he responded with this message.

"Um... Well im not gay or bi if you ever thought or think I am... but, well you never know lol we could be at a party or drunk in college, stuff may happen lol... and you are an awesome dude, dont let anyone tell you otherwise... and if I ever want to do something with a guy you'd be the first one to know... You just never know when it may happen Chris... But I still love you :-D"

So, im wondering what this means, should I keep trying to date him or should I give up and move on? I really like him, and can totally see us dating, cause he doesnt act straight at all and has never had a girlfriend. Should I keep flirting with him, or keep it as a just friends relationship?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Just keep it as a just friends relationship. If it goes somewhere, then it does. If it doesn't, then you still have a great friend. I wouldn't try to push any boundaries though. I'd just leave it where it is

SammyCal · Answer

I think you are reading into it what you want to read into it.

He said he is straight, not gay, not bi, but he still thinks of you as a great friend. To be nice he said, if I ever wanted to do something it would be with you, but he DIDN'T say, I want to do something with you.

Don't flirt with him or push things or you may lose a friend.

Ghostwriter · Answer

I would continue to be his friend and take what he said at face value.  Even he admits he still wants to be your friend and still cares about you.  IF something ever happened he could be open to it with you.  But don't force it.

Kevin · Answer

I'm pretty sure he made it clear that he's not interested in men whatsoever.

I just think you should take the friends route. Tell him that if he's not interested, you'll try to hold those feelings back.

hotter than the devils bootyhole · Answer

OH PLEASE. he is definately Gay. he is just in denial. better keep pressuring him.

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What do you think of what he said?

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